My life,Married.

Is it too early to send your 2yr kids to playschool?

2012-01-26T11:49:00.003+08:00

Ok 3 tahun this year actually.But still,now baru 2 tahun 6 bulan.kecik lagi kan?
seriously my intention bukan la nak suruh Arissa stress belajar pun kat sekolah. Arissa at her age now,is so matured. macam budak 5 tahun.no joke.
she can talk.like seriously.masa umur baru setahun jagung,you can hve a conversation with her.not kanak2 punya conversation ok!adult conversation.

that is when i decided to send her to playschool.3 hrs everyday je pun.
dari cakap bahasa pasar,might as well cakap bahasa sekolah.

so i go for one month trial at genius aulad.
sebulan trial,satu uniform je dulu.hehe..hari2 basuh utk pakai esoknye.ye la kot2 tanak sambung lepas sebulan.

now that dah nak akhir bulan.i need to dcide nak continue ke tak.

after 3 weeks at school,dia still menanges pagi2 nak bangun mandi.still menanges nak hantar masuk class.but everytime balik sekolah dia cakap dia tak nanges kat dalam klass and dia suka school.

so maybe its true,dia tak ready lagi.she is still small anyway.
hubby kata dia kecik lagi kot?kesian kan kecik2 dah nak g sekolah.

but at the same time,kitaorg boleh nampak progress dia tau.dah pandai kaler dalam line,dah pandai tadah tangan baca doa,ambil wudhu..those small2 progress...
and dia ada bestfren..nama dia latip.
according to her,latip nanges2 n muntah kat icha...hehehehe..so cuteeee.:p

i am thiiiiiiiiiiiiissss close to dcide not to continue her.
sampai lah semalam..i check her school bag.tgk msg book,kot2 cikgu ada tulis apa2.
pastu nampak ada new reading book.
so i asked her,eh ada new reading book,Arissa pandai ke baca ni? (*rolling eyes*)
dia ambil buku tu and say,"mummy look,FUN AT HOME!" sambil tunjuk kat tajuk buku..

wahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh...i feel like crying already...!!!!!
n then i open the first page n second page..so she read...and the third page dia kata look teacher bagi one star and one flower mummy!!!

i'm so proud.beyond words.

Welcome 2012

2012-01-16T23:08:00.005+08:00

The glue that keeps families together is love, trust, commitment and most importantly, a common ground...let that common ground be Islam and you'll have the strongest foundation.

~AB Y,FB

i am a blessed mother to this two beautiful children. Alhamdulillah.
and now it is my responsibility to raise them with the best method i know how.

so for a start the aim is to teach them to always be thankful and to slowly teach them how
(& why) to (perform) solat & doa in their daily life.

Let us together be a better Muslim and start helping & reminding each other.

Friday yeay!

2011-12-23T10:26:00.000+08:00

Long weekend with kiddos.and this time without maid.gonna be exciting!hah!

Random Awesome.

2011-12-07T22:33:00.005+08:00

the right kind of wrong.

2011-12-07T20:47:00.006+08:00

"It's important to tell the people you love how much you love them while they can hear you."

tba2 rasa nak bebel psl org yang ada affair/kekasih gelap.

apsal la carik pasal nak buat bende yang salah kan especially when u r already married.
masalahnye sekarang,u know its wrong,but it always feels right (at least at that time).kan?
macam ur brain is telling u not to do it but your heart says different.
mula2 that person might just be your flavor of the week lah but lama2 jadik serious and involves feelings.

so how?

and when this happens,u will start comparing ur partner with d kekasih gelap.
i deserve better lah.if only lah..that kekasih gelap understands me better lah..
he/she is my soulmates lah..

seriously?seriously?x__x

but yeah,kita pun manusia biasa kan.
this kind of situation might happen to any of us.

im not sure about u guys,but i am married.
so i know.
there are days that i start to compare my husband with all my bekas kekasih or even my guy fren yang bermulut manis.
im not saying that i have kekasih gelap ye.
dont get me wrong.
what im trying to say,we,human always take other ppl/our partner for granted.

pompuan secara fitrahnye mmg lah suke dengar puji pujian sebab tu lah pompuan can easily fall for lelaki buaya darat with sugar coated tongue.
and we pompuan,we love suprises.tak payah la terkejut2 bagi rumah or kereta pun.
kitaorg tau lah balance bank korang ada berapa.
bagi coklat ke buku ke baju ke apa2 lah yang pompuan tu suke secara TAK diminta,mmg lah amat membahagiakan.
tak payah la hari2,nanti muak pulak.sebulan or dua bulan sekali..apa salahnye kan?:)

i mean for the sake of i want to grow old with u...kaaammmonnnnnnnn...takkan takleh kot?

and pompuan (also myself),dah kawin tak reti ke nak pakai cantik2 macam keluar dating dulu kat rumah?
kat rumah pakai makeup,apa salahnye kan?
(tapi apahalnye nak pakai makeup kat rumah kan?)
seeeee...we take for granted dont we?
i mean like seriously anak dok menangis2 ni mintak dukung pastu muntah la bocor la..how la nak pakai cantik2?
kaaannnnnnn??? (alasan!:p)

pastu suami ada affair dengan pompuan hot pakai mini micro skirt marah pulak?

at least biar la sedap mata memandang.jgn la pakai baju besar2 short buruk kat rumah tapi bila kat luar kemain nak melawa.

T__T

cakap senang la.

cuba test weekend ni pakai cantik2 kat rumah.
tgk suami cakap buang tebiat ke tak.
ngeh3.

bila dah start rasa boring in ur relationship,try la to find a way to spice up the relationship.
a reminder to myself also:).
first 5 years mungkin tolerable lagi.
tapi after that,kalau dah boring sangat,mesti salah sorang akan start carik org lain.
wallahualam..saya pun baru setahun jagung kawin.
mintak2 kita semua dijauhkan dari perkara2 yang tak elok ni.

muhasabah diri & perbaiki lah kelemahan diri kita.

"Just because people do horrible things... it doesn't always mean they're horrible people."

short.

2011-12-06T07:27:00.003+08:00

1.hello tuesday yang indah!sekarang 7.30am dan saya masih atas katil belum mandi.10 mnts to office,no jam,no toll.how cool is that?;)

2.the thing about getting a new job when you are old.ermmmm...everything is too old for you laahh...too old to do nothing,sbb awal2 keje mmg tade keje kan.too old to start belajar bende baru..and too old to join induction?:p..old la kalau dah org2 lain semua baru umur 23 tahun T__T.

3.maid dah nak balik indon next week.and i cant imagine my life after that.not the daily chores part,but the kecoh2 kejut anak pagi2 nak siapkan g sekolah sorang and sorang lagi nak hantar g umah nenek dia.haah la anak baru dua pun nak kecohhh kaannn..org lain anak ramai steady je..tapi lantaklah..anak2 aku mmg drama sikit bangun pagi.

4.Arissa nak start sekolah next year.Genius Aullad it is.first month trial dulu.good luck la kat cikgu2 situ,anak saya nampak je cantik rupawan,tapi suka buli org.saya pun kadang2 tak tahan ye cikgu.asik buli adik dia je.haihhh..

5.tahun 2011 ni cepat sngt berlalu.dah siap beranak segala,now Imani dah nak 10 bulan this 21st.cepatnyeee!!

6.Alhamdulillah..macam2 berlaku tahun 2011 ni,beranak Imani,tukar keje(s),beli rumah,beli kereta,burn tiket g Jakarta (sobs sobs),insyaAllah semuanya untuk kehidupan yang lebih baik.

7.Hijrah untuk tahun 2012?perbaiki diri.perbaiki solat.perbaiki bacaan quran.InsyaAllah.
for now,nak mandi g keje dulu.ngeh3.

8.Nah gambar mereka!

Test test

2011-11-10T07:22:00.001+08:00

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On So many Things!

2011-10-29T18:39:00.008+08:00

Sometimes it happens in an instance. We step up, we see a path forward. We see a path and we take it. Even when we have no idea where we're going.

Check out what we bought from this crazy BBW Sale! All for RM1xx! We went there on the very last day.sampai dalam kul 11,ramainye orang!park kereta and naik shuttle.arissa enjoy the shuttle ride :D!! bringing kiddos to such place is not advisable sbb dah la org ramai berkepuk kang ada la scene2 cemas anak menangis pastu semua org pandang macam weh dah tau ada anak kecik yang kau bawak datang gudang buku ni pehal? but i have no choice.nenek2 not available to look after them and bibik tgh cuti.

Shopaholics Series/Jane Green and all chick flick books cost only $8 each. *pengsan*
But i already have most of them.

My hubby go crazy at this section.
He even suggest to take the bread machine cookbook when we dont even have a bread machine at home. T__T. takpe lah sok2 kaya kang kita beli bread machine.

Ni for kiddos.

2. Eight Months Young! she can now mengamok, eat a LOT,drinks a LOT, scream a LOT, berdiri 5 saat,tatih,naik tangga,cakap her own language..tapi gigi tak tumbuh lagi.

3. Kakak Arissa is now 2 years and 3 months young!sebab becok sngt mulut so i decided to start early potty training on her.
Day 4 today - Alhamdulillah so far so good.every 1/2 hour kena bawak dia g toilet.and in between time remind her to go to the toilet if nak terkencing. ada la scene2 terbasah..but sokeh..karpet2 semua mmg dah gulung sejak day 1:D

4. Work Life?...Bismillah..something new something better insyaAllah..semoga dimudahkan segalanya:)

Wordless Wednesday #8

2011-09-28T11:14:00.002+08:00

mirror.

2011-09-26T11:50:00.003+08:00

"No one can put on a happy face all the time, but a parent's unhappiness can transfer to a child. Your child looks to you as a mirror for his own feelings. If you are worried, you can't reflect good feelings. In the early years, a child's concept of self is so intimately tied up with the mother's concept of herself that a sort of mutual self-worth building goes on.
What image do you reflect to your child?"

Fat, Healthy & Happy

2011-09-19T17:35:00.002+08:00

Sabda Rasulullah SAW yg di riwayatkan oleh At-Tarmidzi yg bermaksud :

"Sesungguhnya bagi setiap umat ada ujian dan
ujian bagi umatku ialah harta kekayaan."

sedang saya sibuk membuat monthly budget,on how much allocation untuk bayar duit kereta, rumah, saving, sekolah, etc etc..cuba2 nak adjust here n there, so that boleh la bernafas bulan2, tba2 saya terpk..sigh...saya dok la sibuk risau pasal duit..ada org yang tade peluang pun nak risau pasal duit,sebab dok risau apa la nak makan,nak bg anak makan..:(..

saya lupa nak bersyukur:(..

i need to have monthly allocation also,for charity.InsyaAllah.

minggu2 Raya ni setiap hari mesti ada open hse,makan kambing golek hari2..dok kumpul lemak and kilo2 yang hilang masa puasa sudah menjadi darab 3.
tensen gua.
nak kurus camana ni?
and sebenarnya saya macam dah malas nak diet dah.
lantak lah gemok pun..kan janji happy kan?
tapi kalau dah pakai baju pun menjerit2 nak happy camananye?

so im gonna stay fat, happy and healthy.
screw you guys yang kurus2.gua sikit pun tak jeles.

nak masuk gym suami kata tak payah.jaga anak,mop lantai,berkebun,lap tingkap pun dah sama macam g gym.
hek eleh..jeles tu kalau bini dia kurus & fit macam dulu....

Selamat Hari Raya!

2011-09-17T18:29:00.009+08:00

Dear breadnpepper,

I'm Sorry.
I miss you too.i do.i really do.
I just dont have that much time anymore.
I wish i have more time for myself & for you.

*sigh*

you remember my little angle?
she is all big now..and subhanallah she is one pretty baby!
she is 6 months+ now..
she is my pretty little handbag...
(which btw,i realized that i didn't use my handbag lately but instead found myself carrying my long champ full of diapers & her stuff inside)
pretty & healthy baby..Alhamdulillah:)

and remember her big sister,Arissa?
the one that i used to refer as my 'engkaulah madu,engkaulah racun?'..
well,she still is!haha..
she has the ability to be like talking tom!will repeat every single thing that she heard!
pretty & healthy little girl she is,Alhamdulillah:)

This is both of them during first Raya. *heart*

i know..i know..ikut siapa la putih ni kan???
pffttt:p..

Selamat Hari Raya from our small family!
Maaf Zahir Batin!

*hugs*

Monday blues.

2011-07-18T15:38:00.003+08:00

Lately ni malas sungguh nak blogging..tak sempat pun satu hal jugak sebab kat office busy kerja & bila dah balik rumah mmg masa untuk budak2 je la..
Dalam nak memperbaiki diri menjadi orang yang lebih berguna,i think i overlooked my role as a parent.i should have start it from home.whatever i mean by being a better person,should start at home.me.being.a.better.mom.&.wife.

yang part better wife tu,put aside.haha.sebab sekarang saya hendak bercakap bagaimana nak menjadi emak yang bagus.or emak yang terbaik.

but of cos,terpulang kepada pendapat masing2.sebab lain orang lain lah definition nye.

in case you dont know,im a mother of TWO.my first is not even TWO yet.which btw,she will soon be 2 this 25th.my second is only 5 months young.So yes,im still new to this motherhood world.new & still learning.belajar dari emak,dari kakak,kawan2 and of cos dari internet.
and i tot im already good in it.i mean bagus menjadi emak lah.sampai lah saya dengar anak saya yang belom cukup umur 2 tahun itu bercakap..

'aku lagik!!!'(dalam nada mail upin&ipin)bila kena marah..
'alamak kantoi'
'Allahuakbar semangatnye..' (bila susah nak panjat katil)
'Mummy,icha sakit pinggang la..' (kecik2 dah sakit pinggang????)

ok itu adalah contoh2 ayat2 dia which make me realize that..she is a sponge.she will absorb everything yang dia dengar.and will use it,at the right time.
and she is not even TWO yet T___T..

Arissa is very good when it comes to talking.she speaks clearly.understands instructions.can differentiate things easily.i guess that's the perks of being cucu Nenek Topaz.u cannot stop talking.talking is what we do.kahkahkah.

tapi itu bukan pointnya.my concern is this child is a sponge now.so i need to educate her well.expose her with everything that i want her to be.but then again THAT is out of my control.because i am,a working mom.

pfffttt!!i wish this could be easy.

but i cannot educate the person who took care of her when im not around.that is out of my control.
dah ada parents yang tolong jagakan anak dah cukup baik,takkan nak arah this n that pulak kan?
and my maid..sigh..apa la org indon tu paham kan?dia mmg bercakap guna perkataan 'aku kau'..

frankly,i dont have the time.i dont have the time to spend an hour teaching my girl using flash cards.sigh.i dont have the time to sing and play with her.but every minutes that i hve when Imani is sleeping,i will try my best to spend with her.
but then again that every minutes left is when she's not in the mood or i found myself already sleeping next to Imani.sigh.

so the only solution is to send her to play school.kan?senang cite..bukan nak suruh dia stress2 belajar pun..nak suruh dia main2 ngan kawan2 sambil belajar..in hoping that at school,cikgu akan cakap the right words to kids..and that is my first attempt sending her to CIC..

First day - cikgu cakap dia nanges kejap bila teringat.lepas tu bila cikgu nak sentuh dia cakap 'tak payahhhhh!!'..and she end up rearrange all the furniture in the classroom..

Second day - oh waitt...there is no second day.she refused to wake up at 730.because her mom let her sleep until 10am everyday.screwwww you mommmm!!!*sigh*

her dad say it is too early to send kids like her to school.he means come onnnn...she is not even TWO yet!yeah....but balik2 rumah dengar anak cakap 'bik leha niii...kan aku dah cakappppp!!'T___T

i wish i could do better...
i wish i could do better...

macamana nak buat ni????:(

Survival Tips For Parents - Prof Dr Harlina

2011-07-16T11:34:00.004+08:00

Untuk Ingatan diri sendiri & rakan2..
Few TIPS from Dr Harlina,taken from her FB.

SURVIVAL TIPS FOR PARENTS : Tip no.1 - Strive to be the best role model to your children. Make them proud of you first before you can expect them to make you proud. How about asking this question to your adolescent kids today : ` Have I ever made you proud, son/daughter?' Reflect on the answer, if you're gonna get one.

SURVIVAL TIPS FOR PARENTS : Tip no.2 - Display your commitment, affection and love for each other (as parents & couple) for your children to see. Put on your best smiles the moment you step into the house, no matter how bad things are at work. Make your home as the sanctuary & heaven on earth for the kids. Keep it warm & cozy with your prayers and unconditional love for everyone.

SURVIVAL TIPS FOR PARENTS : Tip no. 3 - Avoid degrading or talking bad about your spouse in front of the children. Remember, it is their father/mother you're complaining about. Don't try to win them over & make them go against your spouse. That's not win-lose, in fact, it is definitely a lose-lose!

SURVIVAL TIPS FOR PARENTS : Tip no. 4 - Appreciate every single deed and help you received from your children. Thank them, praise them - loud and clear for everybody to hear. Put on your best smile while thanking them. You have just made up their day

SURVIVAL TIPS FOR PARENTS : Tip no. 5 - Practice what you preach. But don't preach every time you talk to the children. It might sound like a good sermon to you, but to them, it is simply a nag! Don't ever begin your sentence with `When I was your age.....'. If you do, just watch their eyes rolling up & their ears turning deaf.

SURVIVAL TIPS FOR PARENTS : Tip no. 6 - Provide spiritual guide to your children - they need the framework & structure. Never neglect spirituality in everything you do. Pray together as much as you could. Read the Quran and reflect on its meaning. Convince them, spiritual health is as important (if not more) as physical, mental & emotional health.

SURVIVAL TIPS FOR PARENTS : Tip no. 7 - Apologize for your mistakes and shortcomings, tho' sorry is the hardest word, esp. for parents. We can be wrong too. The children need to be reminded that they're being raised by HUMAN BEINGS, not angels. Try hard not to repeat the mistakes. This might be the most difficult tip to practise!

SURVIVAL TIPS FOR PARENTS : Tip no. 8 - Allow some space for your adolescents to make decisions and guide them from there. Trust them. Who else will if not you, the parent who raised them up! Don't doubt your parenting. Avoid suffocating them with your over-protectiveness. Let them learn from their mistakes.

SURVIVAL TIPS FOR PARENTS : Tip no 9 – Introduce your children to your friends/colleagues.

SURVIVAL TIPS FOR PARENTS : Tip no. 10 - Learn about your children's love languages. Each has a different, dominant type, tho' they might come from the same womb. Manage the diversity. Adapt the best parenting method for each of them. Get feedback - that's the only way to improve.

SURVIVAL TIPS FOR PARENTS : Tip no. 11 – Thank Allah everyday for selecting you, of all the parents in the world, to be THE parent to these beautiful children. Feel honoured by the privileges of being a parent. Enjoy your parenthood - despite the hardship, pain, worries and sleepless nights (not mentioning the big bucks). Cherish your role - show how much you love being a parent.
SURVIVAL TIPS FOR PARENTS : Tip no. 12 - Treasure your own parents, and let the children realize how much you love them. Visit their graves (if they are no longer alive) & tell the children amazing stories about their deceased grandparents. If they're still alive, allow the children to spend their holidays together. Allow grandparents to occupy a special place in the children's hearts & lives.

SURVIVAL TIPS FOR PARENTS : Tip no. 13 - Involve the children in making plans for the family - renovating the house, buying a new car, selecting gifts etc. Best time to teach them about family value & traditions. Let them suggest, however indicate who's the boss. Be fair, sporting and reasonable - this is when the children learn the rules of the game.

SURVIVAL TIPS FOR PARENTS : Tip no. 14 - Instill love for books & knowledge into your children's lives. Hang around in bookshops & never miss the annual book fair. Being digital natives, introduce them to e-books, digital readers & tablets. Read together as a family. You're enriching them with a legacy.

SURVIVAL TIPS FOR PARENTS : Tip no. 15 - Be fair in showing off your affection to each of your children. Deal with sibling rivalry - do not just ignore it. Make time to understand the dynamics, address the dissatisfaction, attend to each complaint. Put yourself in their shoes - they always see things differently!.

SURVIVAL TIPS FOR PARENTS : Tip no. 16 - Learn to say NO to your children, esp. on matters of principles. Do not compromise your values to accommodate their demands. Provide guidance, framework & structure. They need those to lead a successful & meaningful future.

SURVIVAL TIPS FOR PARENTS : Tip no. 17 - Avoid calling your children `problematic' - esp when you can't handle them. Let's rephrase - they are children with `difficulties' - varying degrees, of course. Some quite trivial, some really massive! They need your help & assistance. Do not give up or abandon them now!.

SURVIVAL TIPS FOR PARENTS : Tip no. 18 - Support each other in your parenting process. Display solidarity, restrain from open contradiction on parenting styles. Kids tend to be manipulative if they know you both have disagreement. Single parents, engage others (family, close friends) to support you. You shouldn't shoulder these duties alone!.

SURVIVAL TIPS FOR PARENTS : Tip no. 19 - Instill sense of belonging among your children. Train the young ones to respect the elder siblings, vice versa. Keep them closely knitted.Treat them equally, avoid favoritism. Express unconditional love. Everyone matters & has a special, dedicated place in everybody's heart.

Wordless Wednesday #7

2011-07-06T03:26:00.001+08:00

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We are beautiful,Allah loves us.

2011-06-28T13:51:00.001+08:00

'We are beautiful,Allah loves us' adalah satu program ilmu bual bicara santai tentang aurat&hijab.ini adalah antara program ilmu TERBAIK yang pernah saya pergi. sepatutnya nak attend program yang sama hosted by Munawarrah TTDI on 19 june tapi sebab dah penuh,tak dpt join.on the same day,balik rumah my parents,nampak flyer tentang the same program but organize by persatuan seksyen 7 ( which my mum adalah pengerusi persatuan:p)..so yeay!confirm lah dpt attend:)..Alhamdulillah 400 muslimah dpt berkongsi ilmu & pengalaman prof dr.harlina,wardina,Kak muna & Cat.

Kak Catherina Ross berkongsi pengalaman pertama kali terbuka hati memakai hijab & pengalaman beliau menjadi pelakon setelah memakai hijab.

First class seat betul2 belakang artis.kahkah.

Saya nak share info yang saya dpt dari majlis ini but couldn't find the time to do so.the only blogging time is when I do my project lembu dlm surau.but this auto correct function kat phone sgt annoying.pfftt!
So later,when I have time,I will share the info:)..

InsyaAllah.

23 months Arissa

2011-06-16T13:29:00.001+08:00

Next month,Arissa dah masuk 2 tahun.2 years old!OhEmGeee!!I have 2 yo daughter!cepat betul masa berlalu..:)
Arissa is my everything..she is whatever it means by 'engkaulah madu,engkaulah racun'..part buat org mengamok dia la champion,part amek hati pun dia champion..I can never survive not even a day without her..even when Imani is around..

At 1 year old plus,this girl can talk like org tua!she can construct sentences,can actually bersembang dengan dia & not even pelat!she talks a LOT!(Baka nenek Topaz)..like REALLY a lot!

That is arissa tgh becok bercakap;)!Ada je soalan nk tnya..she is one curious baby!

She loves Imani so much sampai tahap mencederakan adik..nk peluk la cium la...haih...

Next year boleh pergi smart reader ok?

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Wordless Wednesday #6

2011-06-15T17:24:00.002+08:00

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Sharing Info - ASB HARAM

2011-06-13T10:35:00.002+08:00

Good bye blackie:(

2011-06-10T09:00:00.000+08:00

Had a good four years together.time to let you go:(.

Bye2 blackie,terima kasih diatas semua jasamu.

Sedih sungguh:(

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On getting inspired

2011-06-08T23:20:00.003+08:00

"The key is being taught from an early age to not take anything for granted"
-Ivanka Trump

i watched Oprah yesterday,the episode where Oprah interviewed Trump and all five of his children.a must watch episode!
Can you imagine,someone who born n raised in such luxurious surroundings and still can be ambitious?they have EVERYTHING in life and yet still have target to take the family business to another level..kamooonn...what possibly can drive you to NOT take for granted & be so ambitious?

kan?kan?

Donald Trump must have taught them well.The brother said,masa kecik2 daddy Trump always bring them to office.so they are so used tgk their dad talking about business,meetings..etc etc..dah terbiasa sngt sebab tu la they can run business at age so young kot kan?:)

On My Latest Addiction

2011-06-08T16:52:00.004+08:00

My wish, for you, is that this life becomes all that you want it to,
Your dreams stay big, and your worries stay small,
You never need to carry more than you can hold,
And while you're out there getting where you're getting to,
I hope you know somebody loves you, and wants the same things too,
Yeah, this, is my wish.

My pretty little baby is now 3 months young!going to be 4 months this 21st,she is one healthy baby alhamdulillah:)..Baby mummy is also HEALTHY that she still cant fit most of her jeans & tops.pffftt!

Little baby can now LOL.that is laugh out loud if u wondering..make your funny face infront of her or start talking baby language,this little baby will surely give her pretty smile or if you are lucky she will lol!
This little baby can raises her head n chest when put on stomach n can rolls from side to side already!awww..you grow up so fast my dear:)
She sleeps at night which is soooo heaven for mummy & daddy baby!Kakak Arissa still wake up for her milk every night,so yeah that is triple brownies points for you!
Mummy baby is so happy because taking care of little baby is so much easier compared to her kakak.But mummy is yet to teach little baby to self soothe herself because mummy cannot stand when little baby COL(cry out loud!)..she will always end up carry little baby until she fall asleep...:)

little baby,i hope you will grow just as pretty & as brilliant as your kakak Arissa.just follow the good side ok?part kuat mengamok jangan ikut ye?;)

What is your target in life?

2011-06-01T14:00:00.002+08:00

Be thankful for what you have; you'll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don't have, you'll never, ever have enough. -Oprah

It is VERY important to have a target in life.or else you will end up nowhere.
Put a target in what you want to achieve in 2 years time,5 years time,etc etc..how many children you want to have,how much money you should be earning,what car you should be driving..etc..
Or else nothing will drive you to achieve anything.you will end up feeling content with watever you have.
Some ppl will take this as greedy,'tak puas2 lagi ke?','duit banyak2 nak buat apa?'..but little that they know when we earn more we can also give more to others..I hve seen so many rich ppl contribute so much to the society..tak kire la dengan menderma ke,buat klass mengaji free ke,buat kebajikan,bg kemudahan ke,etc..so if kite ni gaji pun cukup2 mkn, simpan je,macamana nk buat benda yg sama kan?
But then again,I also don't blame those yang already happy with their life.
Kena balance lah..dunia nak kejar,akhirat pun kena kejar jugak:)..
Syukur dengan apa yang ada,tapi tetap usaha nak ubah nasib diri,tak salah kan?

Cuma ada org yang lebih senang & Ada org yg susah sket nk capai target tu..ikut nasib la,tapi yang penting kena terus berusaha!

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Pictorial Monday.

2011-05-30T22:49:00.000+08:00

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29 years.

2011-05-29T15:15:00.001+08:00

Untuk 29 tahun diberi peluang merasai nikmat menjadi anak,isteri & emak..
Thank you Allah,for I am blessed.
Syukur Alhamdulillah:)

The best Gift ever! ;)

Happy Happy Birthday!

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What you want in life?

2011-05-23T15:19:00.000+08:00

I'm not sure myself.at this age of ALMOST 29 I'm still not sure what I really want in life.sigh.

T___T

Suicidal.
Anyone looking for a link hse at Putramas Shah Alam?:)

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Wordless Wednesday #5

2011-05-18T21:36:00.000+08:00

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Conversation

2011-05-16T23:14:00.001+08:00

Arissa nakal sngt tadi buat bising & campak2 toys masa Imani tgh nak tdo.And mummy is so angry that she end up saying this..T__T

"Arissa tau tak lipas kata kalau budak nakal nanti dia gigit!"

Dengan selamba dia jawab,

"mummy,betul ke mummy cakap dengan lipas?"

Mummy ni pun satu,lipas kata????T___T

Mummy must be so angry!ngeh3

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Wordless Wednesday #4

2011-04-20T19:52:00.000+08:00

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Weekend & foods

2011-04-13T16:05:00.007+08:00

We decided to celebrate my first weekend after officially habes pantang with foods!!wootttt!!

Saturday to BSC for my red velvet cuppies yang masyaAllah sedapnye T____T lepas tu lunch kat Chilis..ingat kan nak carik tempat2 yang rare sikit jarang g makan tapi sebab keadaan kitaorg yang macam pelancong blank (kes dah lama giler tak pegi BSC so tatau apa yang ada kat situ) so makan je la kat mana yang senang.

Red Velvet Just Heavenly is schoooo heaven!i want this for my birthday this year.
and dont mind for every other year.
image : google

Enjoying her free food:D

and on Sunday to LasVacas for the best steak in town!ewah..tapi seriously sedap la..infact Imani pun gembira lepas menyusu mungkin sebab my milk taste better because of the good quality of meat?we never knowwww......
we decided to go here setiap minggu bila dah kaya nanti..kahkah..for now lets make it once a month je dulu :D

affordable!worth every bite!

Beef wrap!MasyaAllah sedapnye!!

Ribeye Angus for him!

Lamb chop for me!

Happy tummy = Happy mummy!

lepas tu complain pulak kenapa tak kurus2?typical perempuan.
hari sabtu tu lepas g BSC g singgah The Curve jap nak carik baju.baru je masuk fitting room kat brands outlet tiba2 dengar suara budak kecik yang nyaring giler nanges.pfffttt!!!komfem anak aku!!try2 baju jap & terus keluar.keluar2 tgk bapak dia agak cemas sebab semua org pandang & ada pulak para2 ibu yang cuba menenangkan budak kecik itew.ada yang tgh pandang slack sambil berkata dalam hati manala mak budak kecik ni..T____T..
tgh cemas2 tu dah takleh pikir mana la pulak aku nak menyusu dia ni...kat tgh2 org ramai kah?but i know the curve ada nursing room but agak jauh perjalanan dari Ikano.maka berjalan lah si emak tu memegang anaknye menuju ke nursing room.sepanjang perjalanan budak kecik itew menanges kuat sebab apparently she is not only haus but also berak & pampers penuh.dan semua itu berlaku hanya semasa mak dia pegi fitting room.ngeh3.

last but not least,nahhhhh muka budak kecik yang bila nanges satu taman boleh dengar!

Budak kecik yang muka rare giler!

Ibu yang runsing.

2011-04-07T10:43:00.001+08:00

masa belum mengandung,tak sabar nak mengandung.bila dah mengandung,tgh2 bayi tendang2 tersenyum sorang2 tak sabar nak bersalin.tak sabar nak tgk muka bayi,comel ke tak,sempurna ke tak,sihat ke tak,macam2 la.bila dah bersalin,alahai kena pulak berpantang,tak sabarnye nak habes pantang nak bawa bayi jalan2.dapat pegi klinik pun punya la seronok.dan sekarang bila bayi dah 45 hari,risau pula bayi nak minum susu apa.

sebenarnya,saya bukanlah terlalu taksub untuk menyusu badan.kalau boleh,saya nak membesarkan anak tanpa rasa stress.bukankah sepatutnya membesarkan anak itu satu proses yang amat membahagiakan?:)..
tapi,saya juga bukan bodoh untuk menafikan susu ibu itu adalah susu TERBAIK untuk bayi saya.bestla kalau besarkan anak pastu boleh bagi yang terbaik pulak tu.kan?kan?macam instead of beli kan baju anakku,kita belikan dia baju baby gap.baju jugak...cuma bayi itu lebih bergaya.cuma dalam kes ni baby gap lagi mahal dari anakku la.susu ibu?free.

stok2 masa berpantang dah nak habes,sebab saya dah start kerja.bayi pula walaupun nanges2 reject puting boleh pulak habeskan 3oz x 5 botol sehari.masa dalam pantang saya hanya boleh sediakan sehari 3 oz je untuk stock.yang lain semua bayi mahu direct feeding.jadi jumlah stok pun tak la banyak mana.cukup sampai esok.tsk tsk.mujurlah hujung minggu ada untuk tambah stok.
semalam hari pertama di office sebab masuk tengahari sempat pump 2 kali je.dapat la 2oz x 2 botol.malam terpaksa la set alarm & pump seround.so hari ni masuk pagi saya jangkakan akan mendapat output yang sama 2oz x 3 kali pump.
bila kira2 pakai jari tangan dan kaki..memang la tak cukup nih..haih.

tgh try makan fenugreek sejak semalam.hopefully berkesan.

saya tanak komplen2.sebab saya tau ada lagi ibu2 yang lebih sibuk & lebih banyak dugaan,mampu untuk menyusu bayi mereka selama 2 tahun.
saya dah cukup bersyukur,setakat ini saya mampu lagi nak menyusu Imani.
which btw,dah few days cakap dengan suami nak beli nursing cover sebab malu baju terangkat2 bila menyusu Imani tgh2 org ramai.tapi suami dok perli2 kata mummy ni macam2 la (konon2 kejap je poyo) or actually i can opt for benda yang dah sedia ada seperti shawl.tapi nak jugakkkkkk bazir duit.ngeh3.
so today bagitau suami,mungkin ada parcel tiba dirumah sebab saya baru beli barang online.pastu suami cakap...dah agakkkkkkkkkk daaahhh!!beli jugak!..:D..

runsing.sungguh runsing.

Wordless Wednesday #3

2011-03-30T12:38:00.001+08:00

Baby & Food :)

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Hello Monday!

2011-03-27T16:32:00.001+08:00

taking care of TWO kiddos is NO easy.penatnye masyaAllah.in my case Imani is the "boobyattached" type (ha amek ntah apa gelaran aku bagi ntah punya la melekattt je keje dia) and Arissa will show her tantrum every now and then.and i am now NOT really berpantang kepit2 jalan slow2 ..kalau tak mmg la semua keje tak jalan.
Breastfeeding is also not easy.or at least in my case.i am not sure if my supply is enough for Imani.dah la berat naik 300g je kan.she BF all the time during day time & sleep at night which is a good thing.but the fact that she BF ALL the time during day time,is killing me a bit.ewah a bit.ye la letihnyeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!
macam tak kenyang2..tapi bila bagi EBM 2oz-3oz..siap burp kenyang & tdo..pfft!
i have to curik2 time to make stock tapi sebab direct feeding all the time maka hasilnye tak la banyak mana.
macam tatau la nak manage time,baby and pump session macamanaaaaaaaaaaa!!!!urgkhhh!!!
hopefully after kerja,things will get better la:|
walaupun susu tak mencurah2..still i THANK GOD untuk rezeki Imani...:)

next week dah nak start keje (i only take 44 days leave)..boleh tak secretly inside tak sabar nak start kerja sbb nak rest kat opis?kahkahkah..kidddddddiiiinnnnnggggggggggggggggggggg:p

ok la,gtg.i need to feed myself hence the theory mak kenyang,anak kenyang !!sebab tu la mak tak kurus2...tapi mengapakah anak masih kurus????

Day 31 - Still FAT.

2011-03-23T16:37:00.001+08:00

Haih budak sorang ni dah la rambut spike,badan kurus tapi tinggi ( ikut maknye konon tapi Mak gemok ),pipi dah bambam tapi pipi je la yang lain kurus lagi.check up 1month baru naik 300g??
Itu pun doktor siap buat lawak,alahai 300g???berat rambut je kot..ngeh3..
Alahaii...menyusu ALL the time tapi how come kurus anak oi?
Nasib paed kata it's normal for BF kiddo to gain that much for a start.
Sokeh kiddo..we are going to catch up sooooooonnn!!!

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Preloved Spectra 3 Electric Breastpump For Sale!

2011-03-18T13:25:00.007+08:00

I decided to let go my Spectra 3 Electric Breastpump.
Still in excellent conditions since masa Arissa dulu jarang sngt pakai sebab susu tak banyak n i gave up....early:(..
So now for Imani,im using my sister's Avent manual & Medela.Banyak sngt breastpump kat rumah ni..:)

Preloved Spectra 3 Electric Breastpump

This package includes the following :

- 1 unit Spectra 3 Electric Breast pump
- 2 sets Spectra Breast Shield Set (for double pumping)
- Spectra Cooler Bag
- Spectra Carrier (Sling) Bag
- 1 conversion kit for wide neck bottles
- extra silicon mambrane
- 1 Bottle stand
- Original box.

Special Features :

1.Can be converted into a double pump
2.Minimum noise during breast pumping session
3.Very easy to use & all the components are separable so easier to wash/sterile.

Reasons to let go :

-items used ONLY few times.Not using it anymore.

Retail price at rm500++.
Letting go at RM370 complete with carrier & cooler bag.

Botol susu yang mengandungi BPA

2011-03-17T15:26:00.002+08:00

Sebagai Panduan & Peringatan untuk kawan2 & diri sendiri sebab botol2 yang gambar kartoon mickey mouse/Pooh jual kat kedai Ana*ku tu pun ada BPA.

So insyaAllah,storage bottles EBM macam brand mom's little one spectra,yang tak lutsinar tu,BPA free la kot.sebab dah beli lama,dulu masa beli tak baca kat kotak.hehe..

Kenal pasti botol BPA dan panduan penggunaan

PANDUAN PENGGUNAAN BOTOL SUSU BAYI POLIKARBONAT

a) Kenalpasti Botol Susu Bayi Polikarbonat

Botol susu bayi polikarbonat bersifat keras dan lutsinar di mana ianya
mengandungi Bisphenol A (BPA). Botol susu ini boleh dikenalpasti melalui
kod identifikasi plastik yang biasa didapati di bawah botol susu bayi seperti
berikut:

a. Nombor 7
b. Nombor 7 dan PC
c. Nombor 7 dan ‘other’

Botol susu bayi yang bebas BPA biasanya dilabelkan dengan perkataan
‘BPA free’ atau bebas BPA.

b) Pengendalian Botol Susu Bayi Polikarbonat

1)Steril botol susu bayi polikarbonat mengikut arahan pengendalian
yang terdapat pada label atau yang diberikan oleh pengeluar
sekiranya ada. Jika tiada, pengguna perlu merendam botol susu
bayi polikarbonat dalam air yang mendidih selama 5 hingga 10
minit.5

2)Elakkan menggunakan air panas secara terus dalam botol susu bayi
polikarbonat untuk membancuh susu
.
3)Guna peralatan mencuci botol susu yang sesuai seperti span dan
berus yang lembut bagi mengelakkan permukaan dalam menjadi
rosak dan bercalar.

4)Sentiasa periksa permukaan dalam botol susu dan sekiranya
terdapat kesan calar atau rosak, botol susu perlu diganti. Sekiranya
tiada kerosakan, botol susu perlu diganti setiap 6 bulan.

Namun, pengguna juga boleh membuat pilihan awal dengan menukarkan
penggunaan botol susu bayi polikarbonat kepada botol susu bayi yang
bebas BPA mengikut kemampuan masing-masing. Terdapat pelbagai
alternatif botol susu bayi di pasaran yang diperbuat daripada polypropylene
(PP), polyethersulfone (PES), polyamides (PA), kaca dan lain-lain.

p/s : tapi zaman kita kecik2 dulu mak2 kita kisah ke pasal BPA ni?dah la kecik2 dah bagi makan pisang lenyek..formula-fed pulak tu..ngeh3..ke baru sekarang botol BPA ni wujud?

Wordless Wednesday #2

2011-03-09T18:09:00.000+08:00

The Smiling Baby:)

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Day 15 - On so many reasons to be thankful.

2011-03-08T15:57:00.002+08:00

15 sebab kenapa saya perlu bersyukur hari ini

1. Sejak minggu lepas,saya dah mula menyusu Imani sepenuhnya!Syukur!Syukur!!Mula2 mmg tanak campur FM langsung on the first week,tapi memandangkan Imani ada jaundice & susu badan tak keluar2 lagi..so doktor suruh top up FM dulu just to make sure baby poo poo macam biasa & buang all the kuning.still,syukur sngt untuk hari2 saya dpt menyusu Imani dengan susu ibu:).

2. Semalam kali pertama pump susu nak buat stock..walaupun tak banyak mana,tapi FIRST time..saya pump dapat almost 2oz.FIRST time!!!syukur!!!

3. I realized that BF baby is a lot clingy compared to FM baby.Imani nak berkepit all the time!penat la..but i guess this is what ppl call bonding time,yes?..but it is quite predictable,macam bila baby nanges is mostly because she is hungry or her diaper is wet,kalau dulu masa Arissa i have to consider she might be kembung la angin la sakit perut la minum banyak sngt susu la..etc etc..syukur,sebab kali ni menjaga bayi amat mudah:)..

4. tadi bawa Imani pergi jumpa paed.worried sebab dah almost one week dia poo poo macam cirit,tapi tak cirit la.takut la dia sakit perut ke apa sebab asal nak poo poo sure kena kentut kuat giler.doktor kata poo poo dia normal & typical for BF kiddo.just that maybe perut dia angin lebey ke apa...alhamdulillah..

5. owh..owh..syukurnya saya dah turun 10 kgs in two weeks time:)..

6. Arissa sayang sngt adik dia sekarang...everytime pun nak kiss adik dulu..i hope it will last like that..mula2 asik merajuk la..but it gets better now Alhamdulillah..siap tau lagi nama adik apa...imaniiiiii!!!

7. On Berpantang - i am pretty much berpantang ikut cara org2 tua.on the food in take,the tungku part,sapu bedak panas,pilis & whatnot..tapi sejak semalam dah start malas pakai bengkung 20m tu & switch to PB instead..& the perut...is almost gone!syukur:)

8. Syukur saya dikurniakan keluarga yang banyak menolong.walaupun berpantang dirumah sendiri,MIL akan dtg pagi2 mandikan bayi,kadang2 siap masakkan lauk lagi ok,adik2 yang dtg teman tdo dikala suami bekerja malam,mak ayah saya yang selalu dtg bertanya khabar & adik beradik yang lain tolong jaga & layan Arissa.

9. Syukur...dikurniakan suami yang sngt penyayang,bertanggungjawab & ringan tulang.

10. Syukur sebab berat Imani dah naik sikit.3.5kgs now:).

11. Syukur sebab saya berpeluang rasa saat2 bahagia ini.menjadi ibu kepada DUA org anak perempuan yang sngt comel.hehehe..

12. Dan untuk rezeki yang tidak putus2...Alhamdulillah...kami masih merancang untuk kehidupan yang lebih baik..insyallah...soon;)..

13. Penjimatan berganda tidak perlu membeli banyak brg untuk bayi kedua.semuanya pakai kakak punya!Alhamdulillah..

14. masa Pantang dpt tgk semua cerita kat TV.mainly TV3.sebab kat atas tak settle lagi wiring Astro.so from WHI to slot lagenda,slot akasia..u name it!eh syukur2...

15. Syukur dipermudahkan proses melahirkan bayi hari itu.untuk bayi yang sihat,cukup sifat & comel,serta suami yang tidak berganjak walau seinci pun,Alhamdulillah...

Wordless Wednesday #1

2011-03-02T15:09:00.002+08:00

Another bundle of joy:)

2011-03-01T20:32:00.003+08:00

I praise Allah for sending you my love..

Aleeya Imani Bt. Mohd Shahrin

Baby Imani was safely delivered on Monday 21022011,weighing 3.3kg.

She is one healthy & beautiful baby,alhamdulillah:)..

And now..confinement period...aaaa...40 mnts just to get myself ready bertungku,sapu minyak panas,bedak panas,bengkong,pilis..haih..
Good thing that 90% of the perut dah hilang after one week:)..berat masih belum timbang..ngehngeh..

So many things to blog about..later lah.

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tick tock tick tock..

2011-02-14T11:15:00.003+08:00

All the time we wondered and wondered, who is this person coming/growing/turning/floating/swimming deep, deep inside.

- Crescent Dragonwagon

Dear little one,mummy is having difficult time with leg cramps & back pain.Mummy secretly wish to have you around sooner (like malam ni ke esok ke:p) but at the same time Mummy also scared to be a mother of TWO!your sister is at her most clingy ngade2 mode lately..she wants to be carried most of the time..and wants attention all the time!Can you imagine Mummy have to carry your 13kgs sister with (3.xxkgs) you inside?*backpain*..

I hope today will be my last working day for we will have a meet up scan & CTG session again this Wednesday.and i hope you are doing good inside:)..

Cant wait to hold you & bring you back home....*love*

I wanna grow old with you...

2011-02-11T14:31:00.002+08:00

..All i want to do is grow old with you..

How early should we start on Potty Training?

2011-02-09T15:39:00.002+08:00

image from here

Read my mind.

2011-02-07T15:40:00.001+08:00

....at this stage,i don't feel like doing anything other than giving birth.....

On finding a new Hobby...

2011-02-07T09:50:00.005+08:00

mula2 plan nak menjahit KALAU ada masa la during confinement nanti,tapi i heard that org pantang ni PANTANG sket ngan jarum,infact masa pregnant pun tak elok menjahit (??? abes org yang carik makan menjahit tu susah laaa)....org tua2 ckp lah..tak sure pulak apa kesannya but kalau dah org tua2 kata tak boleh tu...jgn je la buat kan...so plan nak menjahit baju/beading di tangguhkan dulu...
after all im not sure myself how FREE am i going to be pun..hehe..masa dalam pantang first baby dulu..agak banyak masa terluang since Arissa suka tdo siang & jaga malam...org ckp bila baby tdo mak pun kena tdo tapi saya adalah spesis tdo malam..tdo siang mmg susah...tu yang end up grumpy n saiko sangat anak menanges malam2...sebab i need my beauty sleepp!!!
tapi this time..hopefully semua ok..uhuk!hopefully baby tdo malam..uhukk!..*pray hard*..

so last week i decided to join a chocolate class...yes!yes!ketika sedang sarat mengandung:p...tapi ok je..tak susah sngt pun..kalau niat nak tambah ilmu,minat nak belajar bende baru...insyallah Allah mudahkan semuanya...:)...
since CNY last week cuti panjang,i spent few hours of my time to brush up my skills...buat chocolate!:)...
and i love it!

Oreo Chocolate with edible image:)

Oreo coklat yang sngt sedapp!

Power Puff theme for my fren's little girl party!

u can do it for fun or for side income.boleh buat untuk doorgift wedding,bday party,aqiqah ke..etc etc...

FIFFY Warehse Sale.

2011-01-25T14:55:00.003+08:00

For my little one.4 for rm10.and Ada yang 3 ringgit sehelai.
kena kerja keras sket la carik size kat lipatan2 tu,but yeah worth it:)..

Mitten & booties rm1 each.beli jugak sket walaupun arissa punya banyakkkk sngt!!!

For Arissa.rm10/pair:).

Thanks Fatih for the info!!!jimat duit aku.hehehe.target nak beli 2 helai je baju newborn (kedekut giler:p) but end up with more than that!hehe..

Menambah selera makan anak.

2011-01-25T09:45:00.004+08:00

Sapa ada problem anak kurang selera makan angkat tangannnn???!!!!
ngehehehe...

Before this,Arissa mmg sngt suka makan.tapi i dont cook fancy2 food la..kalau kat rumah either bubur sayur (bronkoli,kobis bunga,bayam,kentang,carrot - yang basic2 saje ye) or bubur ayam,or masak nasi makan ngan lauk2 (sup sayur ke,sup ayam ke,telur ke,ikan goreng ke)...hehehe...either tu je yang nak beli kat pasar murah or mmg tu je yang aku reti masak...hehhee...tapi salmon2 mmg tak pernah buat la..i dont eat salmon myself,so nak masak mmg tak reti la...boleh je belajar cari resepi kat internet tapi malas.so end up anak makan apa yang mummy makan okeh?
tapi nenek dia ajar makan macam2 jugak...ayam masak pedas la,masak lemak la,kari la...ikut selera dia la...her nenek will try to adjust with her selera just to make sure cucu dia tak starving...
until la sampai satu time tu dia dah kurang makan...start makan junk2 food makan kerepek2,keropok2 je...try buat macaroni rebus la goreng la,spaghetti,..ok la kejap je dia suka pastu dia tanak dah...so my maid start la bagi nugget goreng la..bagi fries la...which i dont like.kecik2 dah makan bende2 berminyak...not good.i prefer she had bubur or nasi.

Hubby start suggest introduce supplement kat Arissa.we start giving her scott's emulsion perisa oren.Arissa as usual a big fan of ubat-ubatan & watever cecair,has no problem taking it daily.tapi tade perubahan kat selera makan.kadang2 ok kadang2 tak.kalau dah tanak makan tu mmg tanak la...minum susu je.
ngeh ngeh ngeh.

so two months back kitaorg try bagi glucolin (glucose) orange flavor.It works wonders on her!!!tapi sebab glucose ni energy supplement kitaorg bagi sehari sekali je & alhamdulillah selera makan telah kembali pulih:)...& semakin bertenaga okeh!!!kalau terlebih bagi dia boleh end up tdo after 12am.*pengsan*
she will eventually request for the drink herself if kitaorg terlupa nak buatkan.'mummy...nak air olennnnnn'...'nak air olennnnnn'...

i believe ramai mak2 yang susah hati bila anak tade selera makan,lagi2 bila tgk size badan anak is very much smaller than other kids yang same age.
try la supplement2 yang ada and i think its ok to feed our child with supplement after 1 yr old.
yang penting at the end of the day we want to see them healthy.but be sure to monitor their poo poo,rashes,etc etc..sebab kadang2 tak sesuai kan...

Look at my little girl!tall & healthy:)..Alhamdulillah..

Plan.

2011-01-22T23:26:00.001+08:00

Kalau ditakdirkan umur kita tak panjang,dah kata malang tak berbau kan,esok lusa tatau lagi kan?,apakah persediaan kita utk org yg ditinggalkan?

Have u ever think of it?

Bagi yang berkeluarga,apakah nasib anak & isteri?hutang rumah?hutang kereta?hutang2 CC ke etc etc..

Bagi yang menyara Mak ayah & adik2,yuran sekolah?makan pakai diaorg?

Erm..

So berapa banyak amount yang sufficient utk Kita make sure they at least can survive?financially & emotionally.
Not saying for lifetime,but at least la for the adjusting period.

Plan something NOW,because we never know what will happen the minute after.

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Random.

2011-01-18T09:02:00.005+08:00

‎"Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that."

- Martin Luther King, Jr.

i feel more pregnant now compared to last time.sakit belakang,sakit pinggang,kaki cramp (last night first time in history dua2 kaki cramp!),ulang alik toilet,skin problem...sigh..macam2 lah...
or maybe its just a sign that my due date it getting freaking around the cornerrrrrr....*panic*

semalam sterilizer Avent Arissa tak menyala...argkhhhh!!!!!how can we survive without sterilizer???baru pakai setahun 6 bulan with the frequency of 3 times/day...dah nak kaput ke???life span dia should be longer since my sister dah pakai lamaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa gilerr!!!i think more than 5 yrs and the sterilizer still functioning well.so hari ni nak bawak check kat kedai elektrik kalau mmg dah kaput,i will have to get a new one lah.*pfft!!!$$$$$$*warranty card hilang padan muka!..either to get the same brand or try cheaper brand - little beans.tapi tatau lah little beans ni ok ke tak.sebab from review kat internet ada banyak jugak prob.but the good part is,i can get a combo deal that come with a warmer as well with a cheaper price.but not sure how good the warmer is.bapa lama warmer tu amek masa nak warm kan susu..etc...etc..
ni nak kena check ngan kawan2:)...

last weekend kitaorg g baby fair kat MidVal.i missed all the warehse sale for baby last year.*sobs*..so last weekend dengan harapan boleh beli something for lil one,kitaorg pun g MidVal.nuthing much la overall..tapi ok la dapat beli nursing bra murah.yang good quality can get RM20 as compared to harga biasa more than 30++.yang nursing bra cap biasa,which is OK,boleh dapat 3 for rm24.murah kaannn???:)...
and beli flash card for Arissa.sukanye dia bila ajar guna flash card!!tapi kejap je la..pastu sibuk nak kecah kan je flash card tu:p..
and oh yeah...Arissa dapat free shooting & dapat sekeping gambar 5R for free!gambar semua cantik2 tapi kalau nak gambar lebih kena bayar la..

back in 2009,masa Arissa lahir,despite all the ups n down nak adjust with her,adalah saat paling indah dalam hidup ni.menjadi emak adalah perasaan yang paling indah.serious.perasaan cinta yang membuak2 & rasa tanggaungjawab utk pastikan anak tau yang kita syg dia & selalu protect dia.and after setahun 6 bulan,i still feel the same.and now im expecting another one.soon.kadang2 masa baby bergerak (actively) rasa nak nanges.sakit satu hal (;p) tapi mostly because im happy.sungguh tak tergambar perasaan pada waktu itu:)..nak tdo pun kadang2 tak selesa sebab baby gerak2 macam nak bgtau position mummy tdo buat dia pun tak selesa.and kadang2 terjaga malam sebab baby tendang.comel betul perasaan time tu.ye lah,belum keluar lagi dah start bagi sign 'mummy im gonna be awake at this hour when im born ok?'...
and not to mention rasa bersalah nak minum air gas,makan maggi or anything yang tak healthy takut anak kat dalam makan makanan tak sihat.
so now i try to spend as much time as i can with Arissa.afraid that she will fell left out later.and i always tell her that she will get adik soon.from the way she kiss adik every night and peluk my belly hopefully adik dah keluar nanti dia sayang la:p.

Barney&Friends

2011-01-13T19:18:00.001+08:00

Life is so much easier with Barney&Friends:)..
My little girl learn to count,sing&dance from just watching the DVD!

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Yadaaa Yadaaa,,,

2011-01-12T11:07:00.005+08:00

Imprinting on someone is like… like when you see her everything changes. All of a sudden it’s not gravity holding you to the planet, it’s her, nothing else matters. You would do anything, be anything for her.

-Jacob,Twilight Eclipse

I am not a fan of Twilight & Harry Porter.I don't read the book series nor watch the movies.Until one day,while lazying (like always) watching tv, Astro are showing Twilight & Twilight New Moon back to back.so i thought...erm...apa la yang org suka sngt tgk Twilight ni kan..lets give a shot.
...and few hours later...ohemgeeee.....i fall in love instantly with Edward.and the movie.lepas tu terussss download Eclipse:D.*Jacob is dang sweeeettt okeh*..*melt*..

Sebab dah lamaaaa tak update blog,due to kemalasan (i can only spend max 5 mnts infront of lappy when im home itupun sebab nak dwload greys anatomy) & i would rather spend my time playing with my little girl or watch TV,lets update on few things.

1. Pregnancy
Just had my check up this morning.and i am due for 2 weeks check up now.Baby is 2.4kgs now and mummy gained a total of 12 kgs as for now.Doctor kata baby ada potential naik lagi sekilo sampai due date nanti.erk.besarnye!!!hopefully semua ok la.my due date will be anytime after CNY insyallah:).Pray for my dafe delivery ok?;).

2.AJL25.
As expected,tertido half way.i missed the results part,the kak ziana,ct&Kak Pah part.esok paginye bangun2 gelabah google results:p.

3.What we did Last Weekend.
Arissa had so much fun playing at The Curve!its her day:)..Bought few things at IKEA for our house & also a table and chairs for Arissa to play & read books.

4. Preparation for lil one.

set bersalin je for myself & basuh baju2 & toys lama Arissa.

5.Work Life.

still.sucks.

tonsss of work waiting...gtg!

Goodbye 2010,Hello 2011!

2011-01-01T10:18:00.001+08:00

Blueberry muffins to end my 2010:)

And a little project for my little one to start my 2011:).

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I am HUGE!

2010-12-28T16:29:00.002+08:00

I am HUGE.

Last minit carik baju,ni je yang muat.end up looking like ikan paus.

pipi tembam.

menjerit2 ha badan masa duduk.sobs.

apa ni Arissa?

My.Work.Life.Sucks.

2010-12-28T16:14:00.002+08:00

Berusahalah memajukan diri sendiri!

taken from here

While others (i mean ex-colleagues) enjoy their ONE WEEK leave holiday,i am working the whole damn week.
yeah...and i haven't taken not a day of MC yet (at this 3x weeks pregnant).
and not allowed to take more than a day leave each month.

pressureeeeeeeeeeeee takkkkkkkkkkkkkk???
no work means no income lah.

so apa lagi kerah la tenaga carik rezeki..tsk..tsk..
sapa cakap keje sendiri boleh suka suka hati????

You Dont See Me - Josie & The Pussycat

2010-12-27T15:38:00.002+08:00

Remind me so much of my uni life.kahkah.kesian penat nak ngorat org...tapi tak dilayan:p...dalam bilik jiwang sorang2 dngr mp3 (repeat mode)....*awwwww*

Are you ready for 2011?

2010-12-27T11:53:00.004+08:00

i need to learn how to earn extra income.so that i can pay all my monthly commitments with that money & get to enjoy my monthly salary or save 90 % of it.
how i wish...
how i wish...I am not working just to survive.tsk.

2011 is just 4 days away & and this time instead of making plans,wishing for this & that,i just want 2011 to be my year of good Health & Wealth.
for a start,im clearing all my debts (goodbye CC & welcoming Debit Card), and start planning for something that can generate extra income.

hmm..

new job with higher salary perhaps? (sesungguhnya manusia ini mmg tidak pernah bersyukur!heh!)

*dreaming*

I-City,Shah Alam,Selangor.

2010-12-22T13:43:00.002+08:00

last night sebab tatau nak buat apa,we decided to bring Arissa jalan2 tgk lampu.Last time pegi sana masa Arissa still kecik & tatau nak appreciate sngt.Dengan harapan dia akan melonjak lonjak gembira melihat lampu,kitaorg pun bawak la malam td.tapi rupanya tatot..tatot..tgk binatang2 berlampu semua tatottt:p....bertuah betul!

Info on I-City if you plan to bring your kiddos here.

Entrance/car :RM10.patutnya boleh redeemed that rm10 kat dalam.entrance for Safari Park/Cold Room & another one tak ingat nama,or you can use it at any F&B dine-in (provided that your meal exceed RM20).

-semalam Safari Park tutup,Cold room masuk free,so kitaorg guna RM10 untuk take picture kat tempat tak ingat nama tu.just ada 2 lembu berlampu,giraffe berlampu & 2-3 bende lain berlampu.thats all.

Parking : if you are not lucky,you might end up walking jauh just to take picture with lampu2 iteww..

What to expect : nothing actually.just pokok2 & binatang berlampu.and inside the cold room is slightly cold from outside.and ada chinese new year theme ke apa dalam tu.nothing much.but you can take as much pictures as you want.
a few kedai jual brg2 berlampu.kids sure like it.But not Arissa.dia tattttootttt!!!
You will need to walk from one place to another.no much place pun but yeah penat jugak la kalau anda mengandung.heh.
If you like taking picture,this is the place!(maybe?)

Overall : i kinda frustrated sebab after a year,no upgrading at all.sama je.boring.plus Arissa pun enjoy gitew2 je.ngee.But if your kiddos enjoy tgk lampu,sure worth it!

Updates on my 2nd Pregnancy!

2010-12-21T16:27:00.003+08:00

1.Tadi baru lepas check up.Everything is good,syukur Alhamdulillah.Berat baby ok,Berat mak lagi la OK,position OK,position uri,air ketuban..etc etc..semua OK.
2.And yes,we are expecting another Arissa!Doesnt really matter boy or girl,janji baby sihat.(adakah tgh menyedapkan hati?:p)ngeh..ngeh..
3. I have to say that i am VERY excited now..baby is actively kicking!!!Arissa dulu tak active sngt dalam perut,tapi sekarang super Active!!!!Cant wait to see you lil one!!!xxxx
4. What more make me excited,ramai kawan2 yang preggie jugak sekarang...*yeay* musim mengawan?no?
5. Ok actually agak panik tatau nak buat preparation apa since barang Arissa elok2 lagi.For now i can only think of buying my set bersalin,botol susu ,few pasang baju & toiletries.
6. I gained a total of 10kgs so far at 33 weeks.plis stop at 12.plis.tsk.
7. Due date is somewhere around 13-17 February.Valentine's Baby maybe?:p
8. Arissa has started showing her most cranky mengada peel now...ammmiiii....nak dukung....amiiiiii.......(yes she called me amii instead of mummy)..But she loves her adik so much...sayaaaanggg adikkk...*cium perut amii* or gosok perut sendiri or perut abah sambil cakap adik..adik...
9. tak mengidam apa2 pun.my eating pattern remain the same.just a few snacks in between meal (daaaa..normal la tu kan?)...and i take 2 glasses of anmum everyday.
10. very sensitive skin throughout pregnancy,and this time is worse.teruk sngt gatal2.sobs.takpelah..demi anak.
11. i love bau baby!!!wangiiiii!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!but who doesnt kan???
12. i get easily tired & sakit pinggang over doing house chores.
13. tak sabar sngt!!!boleh?;p

Friday yeeeehawwww!!!

2010-12-10T14:21:00.002+08:00

THANK GOD its FRIDAY.really.and its 2.30pm which means another few hours to go and yeayyyyy i can just stay at home.play with kiddo.watch tv.watch tv.watch tv.
i dont really like my job now.but who does kan?complain2 tiap2 hari pun end up bertahun2 jugak kerja situ.well,nak buat camne,rezeki perlu dicarik..uhuk...

my bro is getting married next freaking week & we all dah start busy.yes,baru start busy.hehe..
donno what to expect but hopefully semua akan baik2 sahaja.and my future sis in law just converted few months back:)..

you know what's the feeling of every now and then wanting to be somebody else?its like aaaa....if only i was born in that family,my life would be better...if only i get married to him last time,i wont be facing this kinda problem now...how lucky marion c. is...(Cant wait for their wedding!!!)...i wanna be like kimora...bestnyee....blablabla...i wanna be like her dah la takyah kerja pastu hari2 g shopping (mana eh org camni dpt duit?)...blabla...
i know..the list is never ending...ngeh3...
take a sec, and think,out there..there must be someone else who want to be just like us kan?just because our life is/looks better...hmm...
i wonder who wants to be me...ngeh3..

do you know that drinking air kelapa when you are 7 months pregnant onwards is good for baby?

and do you know that every pregnancy is different?and you will start to assume ahah!must be the gender different...but you might be wrong...

do you know that shah alam tgh ada funfair kat seksyen 13?bring your kids and have funnn!!!

Friday news.

2010-12-03T11:20:00.004+08:00

sudah dijangka..and can u imagine she is only 9 yr old young?long way to go mannnnn!!!*sigh*
penjara 5 tahun je???kaaaammmooonnnnnn!!!!!!*speechless*

KUALA TERENGGANU: “Bayangkan perasaan anak saya apabila kawan-kawan memanggilnya hantu. Kejadian itu menyebabkan dia menjadi semakin pasif dan enggan ke sekolah tahun depan jika wajahnya belum pulih seperti sediakala.

“Saya sangat bimbang kerana emosinya terganggu, dia baru sembilan tahun dan cuba bayangkan apabila dia semakin meningkat remaja nanti,” kata Che Ku Zaimah Che Ku Awang, 28, ibu dua beradik yang cedera teruk di muka apabila disimbah asid oleh bapa sendiri.

Che Ku Zaimah berkata, sebelum ini, Nurul Dahyatul Fazlinda Mat Haizan, 9, pernah memakai topeng ke sekolah tetapi diejek hantu menyebabkan dia membuka topeng.

“Apabila topeng dibuka wajahnya memang teruk kerana daging pipi membengkak sekali gus menyebabkan hidungnya semakin mengecil dan masih dipanggil hantu,” katanya.
KUALA TERENGGANU: “Bayangkan perasaan anak saya apabila kawan-kawan memanggilnya hantu. Kejadian itu menyebabkan dia menjadi semakin pasif dan enggan ke sekolah tahun depan jika wajahnya belum pulih seperti sediakala.

“Saya sangat bimbang kerana emosinya terganggu, dia baru sembilan tahun dan cuba bayangkan apabila dia semakin meningkat remaja nanti,” kata Che Ku Zaimah Che Ku Awang, 28, ibu dua beradik yang cedera teruk di muka apabila disimbah asid oleh bapa sendiri.

Che Ku Zaimah berkata, sebelum ini, Nurul Dahyatul Fazlinda Mat Haizan, 9, pernah memakai topeng ke sekolah tetapi diejek hantu menyebabkan dia membuka topeng.

“Apabila topeng dibuka wajahnya memang teruk kerana daging pipi membengkak sekali gus menyebabkan hidungnya semakin mengecil dan masih dipanggil hantu,” katanya.

Menurutnya, doktor memaklumkan daging akibat simbahan asid akan membengkak dalam tempoh dua tahun dan itulah yang berlaku pada muka Nurul dan adiknya, Muhammad Irfan Firdaus, 2, malah bahagian belakang badannya yang terkena asid turut membonjol.

Sikap pasif dan malu kanak-kanak berkenaan terserlah kelmarin kerana ketika disapa wartawan Harian Metro di perkarangan mahkamah, dia hanya menundukkan muka dan enggan menjawab sebarang pertanyaan.

Harian Metro pada 16 Ogos lalu melaporkan seorang lelaki bertindak melempar asid hingga menyebabkan isteri, dua anak dan ibu mentuanya cedera berikutan berang dengan keputusan isteri berpindah ke rumah ibunya ketika mereka dalam proses bercerai.

Tertuduh, Mat Haizan Mat Yasin, 32, dikatakan memecah masuk ke rumah ibu mentuanya, Minah Omar, 56, dengan membawa bersama sebungkus plastik mengandungi asid.

Tindakan tertuduh menyebabkan Nurul cedera parah di muka, manakala Muhammad Irfan juga cedera di muka.

Semalam, tertuduh dijatuhkan hukuman penjara lima tahun dan dua sebatan di Mahkamah Sesyen kerana perbuatannya.

Terdahulu, lelaki berkenaan dihukum penjara 10 tahun dan lima sebatan yang dijatuhkan mahkamah sama, 25 Ogos lalu, selepas mengaku menyimbah asid ke atas Che Ku Zaimah.

Ditanya sama ada dia masih mempunyai hati kerana masih sudi menjenguk suaminya di penjara, Che Ku Zaimah berkata, lawatannya ke penjara sekadar menunaikan janji kepada Nurul yang meminta untuk melihat ayahnya ketika dia masih terbaring di katil hospital.

“Saya hanya tunaikan janji, tak lebih daripada itu kerana sebagai manusia biasa saya boleh memaafkan kesalahannya tetapi yang lain biar dia dengan Tuhan...hanya Allah yang dapat memaafkan kesalahannya.

“Terus terang saya cakapkan saya sudah tiada hati untuk kembali dengannya tetapi jika anak ingin bertemu dengannya saya tidak akan menghalang kerana dia masih bapa mereka,” katanya.

Monday Bluessss!

2010-11-29T10:06:00.001+08:00

“But there is suffering in life, and there are defeats. No one can avoid them. But it's better to lose some of the battles in the struggles for your dreams than to be defeated without ever knowing what you're fighting for.”

-Paulo Coelho

2010 is going to end pretty soon.well,Hello 2011!!!

i have few targets for this year 2010,and i must say i managed to get 60-70% of it done!Alhamdulillah :)..nothing big,just a personal target..
i wish for a better next year of course,but above all,i just wish i can deliver this little kiddo inside safely & to exclusively breastfeed her for as long as i can.

Anyway,Arissa just had her first hair cut,not counting the botak one after cukur jambul:p,last week.I've been wanting to cut her hair since few months back,but she looks cute with her hair both tied up..just that mmg seksa la nak ikat rambut tu kan.jenuh kejar satu rumah..sikat rambut pun kadang2 susah!

see how messy her hair was?both of them had their hair cut!hehe..zassssssssssssss!imagine la kalau rupa bangun tdo...haih...her hair grows like nobody business!curly kat tepi panjang kat depan n belakang...lepas tu tanak ikat..mmg la serabut.

ni lepas kepenatan struggle bergerak2 masa potong rambut.she looks very much like dora the explorer now...haha...rambut still messy,tapi much better:)..

just to show my last project at Northport,Port Klang last week.upgrading existing tower light.sngt2 interesting to be part of this project team.tapi saya tak naik la..monitor kat bawah je...hehe..panassssssssssssssssssssss terik ok!

alright nak kena g site dah!

Cooking with love:x

2010-11-28T23:07:00.002+08:00

Nasi lemak for breakfast & trifle for dessert:)..
And now,really NOT looking forward for Monday..

I wish for longer weekend..*sobs*..

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Sexy girl having her hair cut!

2010-11-24T09:36:00.001+08:00

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Eidul Adha

2010-11-18T14:15:00.001+08:00

Had the worst stomach cramps yesterday.and it comes every 10 mnts and last for more than a minute.

Semalam petang contraction dah kurang sikit,but still come every now and then.and dah start demam:(..I just had my rest,the whole day.

This morning,went to clinic for check up.baby is doing well alhamdulillah,and doctor said it might caused by gas,or penat sngt.dapat MC for today walaupun sempat jugak masuk office tadi settlekan urgent matter.

I don't remember rasa sakit macam ni masa dalam labor room dulu.rasa macam nak g spital amek epidural je!!!

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gemok.

2010-11-16T16:27:00.002+08:00

i gained 5 kgs in a month.
sigh.

nak sedapkan hati,berat baby bertambah 500g since last checkup,
so i actually gained 4.5kgs in a month.
berat air ketuban bapa eh?ngeh3...

makmokkk betul laahhh!!!tenseennnnn!!!so now,i will have to start to diet.
starting from tomorrow!
eh tapi esok raya kan?
starting from the day after tomorrow!!

chaiyokkkk!!!!this time saya target 12kgs max!

Selamat Hari Raya Aidiladha!!:)..

On so many UPDATES!

2010-11-09T10:00:00.009+08:00

When she wraps her hand around my finger
Oh it puts a smile in my heart
Everything becomes a little clearer
I realize what life is all about

1. How time flies,Arissa is now 15 months ++ old.So active & never failed to surprise us with her new skills. sngt2 cheeky & she knows how to ambik hati her abah & mummy with her cute face.gerammmmm sngt!!!!have no problem to stay with atuk&nenek,or mak long or uncles during daytime without her parents around.alhamdulillah..senang la sikit mummy...dapat la rest..hehehe...we are yet to test letting her stay during night time,sebab takut kitaorg rindu,but looking at the situation,kena test jugak ni.so that in the future,senang sket kalau mummy needs an extra hands:).

2. so far,she just enjoy playing with balls.iphone & drawing.Other than that,sorry...tak minat.pictures taken during her abah's birthday dinner at Chilis.sibuk conteng2 guna crayon:).
sekarang dia kuat sngt minum susu.she can actually finished 3 bottles of 6oz milk in a row.pengsan!kena downgrade susu la camni:p..

3. On her food intake.she is a big girl now.so we are very much flexible in whatever she wants to eat.nasi lauk ikan n kicap,or sup sayur or kuah lemak yang nenek buat, beehoon,spagetthi with tomato source,carbonara,fries,etc..bring it on!as long as tak sakit perut,i think for now she's doing good with no particular allergy:).

4. its funny how this little junior of us,is very much a reflection of who we are.
haha..perangai sebijik macam mummy!:p..

5. and tido sebijik macam Abah dia....

haihhhh....!!!!!

6. and i must say,this cute little girl.....

is my every reasons why....

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we are expecting another bundle of joy...

this coming February:)...InsyaAllah...

Happy (belated) Birthday entry!

2010-11-08T20:42:00.005+08:00

A good husband makes a good wife.

to the greatest man in my life,

may you recover from your knee surgery the soonest possible because i hate driving us around.i hate that i have to look for parking,and do all the driver's job.i hate that i have to go to market & do all the groceries shopping.and i also hate that you start to bebel next to me about the importance of changing gear from D to N (what is so big deal about that btw?) whenever we reached the traffic light.
thank you for making the effort to still accompany me to IKEA,Empire Gallery,birthday party,birthday dinner,etc, despite your difficulty to walk,just to make sure your wifey stop whining about getting bored staying home over long weekend.
you are a great cook.sometimes you cook better than me (or is it all the time?:p).and having you around for 6 weeks at home is like having a master chef at home.(kahkah giler bodek!!)
thank you for staying around.whenever i need you,whenever i don't need you.hehe..
above all,thank you for bringing out the best in me.i am,no doubt a better person whenever you are around:).
i heart you so much.

What is your retirement plan?

2010-10-29T15:56:00.000+08:00

its NOT how much u MAKE,its how much you SAVE

how much do you save monthly?

what is your retirement plan?do you have any?
seriously,at the age of 45,how much can you save?

just wondering,how much is the right amount to save out of total income?
of course we can simply minus expenses and let the rest go to saving account.
but what if expenses is too much? than saving will go low kan?
unless we have a certain amount of monthly saving and let the rest be adjusted to expenses.

and how about credit card?
is it worth to pay all credit card debts and LATER focus on saving OR save and at the same time pay the credit card debts monthly TOGETHER with the finance charges?
and knowing that the dividend is much higher than the interest charges from CC bank?

i am no expert in this money making field.
but i'm proud of myself with how much have i saved with that notsomuch salary monthly.

i need to learn how to make MORE money.
hmm.

HALAL status at Delicious Restaurant

2010-10-25T15:21:00.003+08:00

Just nak share dengan kawan2 yang suka makan kat Delicious.This is taken from my fren's FB status.

Friends, from my curiosity , i sent an email to Delicious Restaurant to verify their HALAL status. Unfortunately, the source of meat & chicken are not all from HALAL source. Its only Pork Free. Astagfirullahalazim...erm..dah byk kali dah pergi..Thank You Allah for triggering the doubt feeling. Please read the reply at the next status-->

and their reply..

Thanks for your email. At
Delicious, we are 100% pork free; our chicken/duck is sourced locally
and is therefore halal. Our beef and lamb, however, is sourced from
Australia, NZ and the US and not all of them have halal certification.
That's why we at pork free status. At Delicious, only one dish has a
...little alcohol in it - Miso Cod Salad. It's in the mirin we add. That's
all.

sekarang kena hati2 dengan status Halal.Sekadar mengingatkan:)..

15 months and growing!

2010-10-22T14:58:00.004+08:00

15 months young soon!all healthy and active!

dah pandai enjoy main kat playground.

tanak balik mummy!!!!i wanna play again!

alhamdulillah..being a mother is the greatest gift ever.i love every second of it:)..

touching betul bila dia sebut perkataan mummy sekarang...

dah pandai cakap and buat ayat2 pendek.and she speaks clearly tau.tak pelat2 pun.

mummy.. nak susu!
mummy..susu dah habes!
mummy.. nak pinpin (upin ipin)
mummy...kasut mana?
and a lot more.

she has no problem wearing CD so far.*clap2*
dah besar ni semakin lasak.semakin pandai menjawab.
gigi still 6 batang total.but has no problem brushing her teeth everyday.
sukeeeeeeee gigit berus gigi.
(which btw,i have trouble nak ajar Arissa kumur,sekarang ni macam dia telan je semua)

and sejak akhir2 ni dah tanak tdo dalam katil sendiri.cot is too small for her.she even conquered our King size bed every night.abes kitaorg kena flying kick.

she understands instructions very well.dah boleh suruh tolong ambilkan remote,buku,handphone or her own toys.
she loves palying with balls and balloons.macam boy.barbie2 tak main k.

tapi yang paling penting,i think she's ready to be a sista!;)

Heart talking

2010-10-22T14:30:00.002+08:00

So when you lose your way
To Allah you should turn
As HE promise HE will always be there…

most of the time,i will remind myself to always bersyukur because there is always someone else who got it worse than me.

but sometimes,i cant help myself from having this very negative feelings.
giving up,life is unfair,i deserve better,regret,etc.

i need a space.i need time for myself.i need to change.
and above all,right now...i just need a HUG.

Praying.

2010-10-19T11:01:00.000+08:00

WIFI and friends..what more can I ask for:)...

Hubby will undergo a knee surgery tomorrow morning.
And now nurse is taking him for a MRI scan....and while waiting for him,I couldn't help myself NOT to relate with Greys Anatomy..hihi..

Semoga semua urusan dimudahkan Allah.amin.

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Hormatilah IBUbapa anda.

2010-10-14T23:03:00.003+08:00

Seorang lelaki datang kepada Rasulullah SAW, lalu bertanya: Wahai Rasulullah, siapakah orang yang paling berhak untuk aku hormati?

Baginda menjawab: Ibumu.

Lelaki itu kembali bertanya: Kemudian siapa?

Nabi menjawab: Ibumu.

Lelaki itu terus bertanya: Kemudian siapa?

Nabi menjawab lagi: Ibumu.

Sekali lagi lelaki itu bertanya: Kemudian siapa lagi?

Nabi menjawab pula: Kemudian bapamu.

dulu,bila tgk tv anak kurang ajar/derhaka kat mak,mak tu mesti cakap "susah payah aku jaga kau masa kecik2 dulu,macam ni balasan kau kat aku???"..kan kan?or ayat2 lain yang maksud lebih kurang sama.masa dulu kalau dgr ayat2 camni pernah je terdetik dalam hati,ye ke susah..macam maid je yang jaga masa aku kecik dulu..hihihi...

tapi sekarang,bila tgk sendiri anak kurang ajar kat mak,terus rasa sebak:(..sngt2 sedih..myself and most of my frens tgh in the phase 'susah payah aku jaga kau masa kecik2 dulu' la ni...im not saying jaga anak ni susah,just that most of the time,we put anak before our self.

sebelum anak keluar dari perut lagi,mak dah buat segala persiapan,baca Al-Quran,makan segala vitamin yang ada,minum segala susu yang ada,bercakap2 dengan anak,beli baju lah katil lah..etc etc..
sanggup berjaga malam bila anak tak sihat.
anak baru start merangkak,kita lah yang paling sibuk nak make sure semua benda tajam/keras takde nearby
walaupun mak ni tak sihat,anak punya pasal,kuatkan jugak semangat..yang tak boleh pun dibolehkan...
nyamuk pun takleh datang dekat anak kita okeeyyyyyy...

sigh...macam2 lagi la pengorbanan mak..sampai bila pun tak abes list.

pastu boleh korang imagine anak yang korang tgh tumpahkan sepenuh kasih sayang sekarang ni dah besar esok tengking and kurang ajar kat korang balik?

nauzubillah..mintak dijauhkan...
semoga anak2 kita semua menjadi anak yang soleh/solehah kelak.amin.

emo.emo.sobs.

How to Paint your wall-DIY (The Aftermath)

2010-10-12T12:56:00.000+08:00

Paint my love

You should paint my love
It’s the picture of a thousand sunsets
It’s the freedom of a thousand doves
Baby you should paint my love

-MLTR

The painting part is not easy.hihi.My Handyman do it all.*clap2*!

Low cost project for a quiet impressive results!:).

Kemalangan di Kilometer 223 Lebuh Raya Utara-Selatan

2010-10-12T10:14:00.004+08:00

Every time you feel like you cannot go on
You feel so lost and
That you're so alone
All you see is night
And darkness all around
You feel so helpless
You can’t see which way to go
Don’t despair n' never loose hope
Cos' Allah is always by your side

InshaAllah InshaAllah InshaAllah
Insha Allah you’ll find your way

-Maher Zain,InshaAllah

Takziah kepada semua keluarga mangsa yang terlibat.Amat2 menyedihkan dan menginsafkan bila baca paper pasal kemalangan jalan raya yang melibatkan kematian ni.

Sangat bernasib baik kerana kereta saya bukan salah satu daripada kereta yang tba2 kena hempap/kena langgar dengan Bas dari opposite direction (no i didnt go to Selatan on that day,just that mangsa yang ke arah Selatan tu mmg sngt tak bernasib baik.dah ajal).Bukan keluarga or kawan2 yang saya kenal.Syukur.
which remind me so much of my neighbour back in Taman Harmonis,Gombak.tgh2 jam kereta not moving tba2 kenderaan (bas or car,tak ingat) terbabas from opposite direction and hempap her car.she died instantly.

Sebab it might happen to any of us kan.*insaf*

Al-Fatihah kepada semua mangsa yang tak dpt diselamatkan:(.

Ayam Penyet Ria finally in Shah Alam!

2010-10-11T09:46:00.001+08:00

Delicious Smashed Fried Chicken served with their all-famous Sambal Belacan.

Finally,Ayam Penyet Ria is now opened in Shah Alam.Warga Shah Alam dah tak payah susah2 pergi Sunway lagi!

Located at seksyen 9,opposite McDonalds & Achiever Lighting,you can find this delicious place to eat:).

Yummiehhhh!!!

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How to Paint your wall-DIY

2010-10-08T10:18:00.005+08:00

How to Paint your dining/living/bedroom wall - DIY

just to share since its gonna be our weekend project:).*wink*

its pretty cool,fun & easy to FIRST decide what color you should go with (safe/natural color?or something different & modern like red or orange?)..and how to match it with your existing sofa,curtains..etc etc..

1. Go to http://www.jotun.com/AP and clik Jotun ColourAdvisor
2. and next is to choose which tools you wanna try.in my case i choose colour my own pictures.
3. is to sign in/sign up

4. Upload your bedroom/dining/living wall picture.

5. Select the options given.

6. You need to define your area first.different painting colour will require you to define two different areas.

7. and start painting!hihihi..this part is fun if you are not colour blind!(Sorry hubby!:p)..try Red for feature wall & lighter red for the big wall...erm....

8. Green for Boring??

9.Orange for modern living hall?ntahhhh laaa labuuuu.....

10. the best part is,you can print the endresult & save the colourcode!

11. the hardest part is to decide!pfftttt!!!

and we havent decide yet which colour to go with.petang ni dah nak kena beli cat dah.

12. The DIY Painting part? hmmm not sure how....lets see the end result after this weekend;)!

Happy weekend!!!!!!!!!!!xxxx

Updates

2010-10-07T10:14:00.004+08:00

So when the time is hard
There’s no way to turn
As HE promise HE will always be there
To bless us with HIS love and HIS mercy
Coz, as HE promise HE will always be there
HE’s always watching us, guiding us
And HE knows what’s in all in our heart

Maher Zain - Always be there

1. Lately ni malas sngt nak Update blog.malas!malas!malas! *sigh*
2. Arissa dah start fully berCD since last Sunday.Alhamdulillah..the whole process is so simple...*clap2*.
3. My little princess is now 14 months young!Dah pandai cakap lotsa words clearly, dah pandai ikut exactly macam Barney & Baby Bop buat dalam CD, dah pandai makan sendiri, dah boleh ikut instructions. Tapi lately ni pulak manja sngt2..asik nak kena dukung & nak kena peluk jeeee!!!and she is not a little baby anymore!berat!
4. One thing about Raya that i love, the get-together part with old friends:)..love it!
5. i have been listening to Maher Zain since the day i bought the CD.Cant help it,love all the songs!
6. how time flies,in less than 3 months time dah masuk 2011.c e p a t n y a!
7. i have something to tell.let it be a special entry:).

gtg!

Fully using Cloth Diaper (CD)

2010-09-29T14:46:00.004+08:00

i want Arissa to fully ber-CD start next month.but im not sure how ready i am.

but im pretty sure i am so ready for it since i hve maid.and ini lah tugasan paling sesuai untuk maid.kan kan kan?
for a start,nak purchase CD dulu.in a big amount.long term investment after all since adik Arissa boleh pakai jugak.
plus its better for me to invest one time on CDs and later the monthly Dis. Diaper money can go to other investment such as my handbags,car loan,ASB loan or savings.

but for now i need to educate myself about using CD.selama ni selamba basuh guna sabun biasa.lepas ni nak make sure sabun apa yang sesuai.
nak kena beli extra baldi nak asing kan CD yang kena poo poo with others.

plus ada beza ke CD l*natots dengan CD2 yang lain yang harga much cheaper eh?
i need info!more info!

Maher Zain - Thank You Allah

2010-09-27T15:02:00.001+08:00

The ever worth buying CD:)..

And now I should consider going to Maher Zain concert this October at Shah Alam.

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The cranky baby.

2010-09-23T09:01:00.004+08:00

“We tend to forget that happiness doesn’t come as a result of getting something we don’t have, but rather of recognizing and appreciating what we do have.”

– Frederick Keonig

'let me go!!!!'.lol.
love this picture:)

taken on the 3rd Raya.
Saja nak tunjuk baju raya kurung pahang ready made siap beading leher & tangan (tapi tak nampak sngt dalam pic) yang saya suka sngt ni....ngeehehe..

Arissa tak sihat semalam..demam,batuk,selsema & cirit birit..u name it!dah bawak g klinik semalam tp doktor kata virus ke apa...so will monitor today,if getting worse,kena bawak g hospital la..
and..last night dia sngtlah cranky!menangis nak suruh dukung peluk..macam2 lah..minum susu muntah..tuam kepala nanges..haih..bagi tgk upin&ipin kat iphone pastu dia senyap kejap pastu nanges balik...we both end up tak tdo sngt pun...& today kena masuk ofis awal sikit sebab ada flood light from US nak sampai,peningnye kepalaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!:(

cepat sihat ye sayang oi!:)..malam ni kita nak g beraya ni!

Gambar Raya!

2010-09-21T09:44:00.009+08:00

Di masa bulan Ramdan
Kita berpuasa hingga sebulan
Pabila Syawal menjelma
Hari raya disambut dengan gembira

Our last buka puasa at my mum's:)..

why is everybody so excited mummy?

My girl in her full Raya gear looking so pretty!

After sembahyang Raya,we all rush to my in law's for big family picture!:)

and later rush to my mum's for another big family picture!
ok semua amek tempat masing2...

Hadif : 'Arissa look at the camera'

and yes!one perfect picture with Hadif holding Arissa's head.LOL.

cukup korum yo!!!

and one happy family at home picture:)

sisters;)
and the wajib part..

My bro & my future sis in law,my sis & my bro in law & both cutest kiddo in the hse!

and our small family pic..yeay!

ingat nak outdoor,tapi hujan pulak..hihi..so kena la pakai payung:p

kanak2 riang dapat collect banyak duit Raya!

fuhhh!! & that is how we celebrate our first Raya before going back to JB after sembahyang Jumaat.It was very meaningful Raya & very much FUN to see my little baby now all grown up looking pretty in her Raya gear.she enjoyed it so much especially when her cousins are around.
and for me,of course after 4 years without my little sister,she is now back for good to celebrate Raya with us!;)...alhamdulillah...one happy family at home!

On 2nd Raya,we made our move to Kota Tinggi ,Batu Pahat & later to Muar.it was hell a long journey!jalan jam!pffttt!!kesian Arissa..diarrhea pulak...macam2 org suap dia.kuih raya la kerepek la...huhuh...tapi kesian lagi kat mummy Arissa!as early as baru abes beraya satu rumah on 2nd Raya Arissa poo poo & bocor atas baju Raya mummy!!!bau dalam kereta tu jgn cakap la camne kan..i insist Hubby to stop the car & get it wash tapi jalan sempit plus tahap kebocoran macam tak boleh nak basuh dengan air masak.so tahan sekejap kitaorg stop kat masjid.huhu...Arissa dah serupa mandi balik & baju mummy pun basuh2 ngan sabun je dulu...tapi mmg adventure la overall.every stop kena tukar baju dia..tukar pampers.nasib bawak spare baju banyak:)...

we reached my kampung,Muar at around 830pm..what a long journey!Batu Pahat & Muar yang dekat tu pun sampai berjam2!

TBC ..ewah...

Macamana nak buang minyak masak?

2010-09-18T09:35:00.003+08:00

'When we heal the earth, we heal ourselves'

Apa cara yang betul untuk buang minyak masak?
Can i just buang dalam longkang?
will it cause any pollution to the water or in short term causing longkang tersumbat ke?

Just wondering,korang buang minyak macamana eh?

Entry malas!

2010-09-17T12:47:00.003+08:00

My girl,my love,my life.

Rambut dah panjang dah boleh ikat yo!!

My girl,all grown up:)

Giler malas nak type post.
ngehehehe..

next time lah:)

Selamat Hari Raya!:)

2010-09-15T09:54:00.002+08:00

'The love of a family is life's greatest blessing'

Selamat Hari Raya & Maaf Zahir Batin from our small family:)

Mood Raya.

2010-09-06T13:20:00.003+08:00

mood raya dah dtg so mmg tade mood lah nak kerja.
rasa nak balik rumah.kemas rumah.kemas stor.kemas almari.

nak balik nak balik!

owh..tudung kentang aritu end up ditukar kepada tudung Ariani biasa yang match ngan baju raya satu lagi.sebab Hubby kata i look better in tudung Ariani biasa.
andddd...aritu jumpa satu tudung batu swarovski yang agak match ngan baju raya satu lagi!kat Ariani Shah Alam price dia range from 315-350 depending on how heavy & cantik the batu bata kat atas tudung tu kan...tapi after discount dapat 250.
tapi sebab harga mahal sngt kan,so i decided to get shade color yang boleh match ngan banyak baju.so esoknye terus g Ariani Kota Damansara.punya la semangat nye nak beli tudung raya ni!huh!after try2 dah dpt tudung yang match & size ok semua ok pastu bila tanya harga 380 pulak.huh?dah la batu2 tu tak la heavy mana.the same tudung my sister bought for the price of 315 tba2 bila nak dekat raya harga naik jadi 380?danggg!!!mahal nak mampos.lagi mahal dari harga baju raya.so tak jadi beli terus!huh.beli tudung twist kaler sama but no swarovski....boring aahh..baru ingat nak lip lap sikit raya ni...ngeh ngeh..

kuih raya dah banyak kat rumah..tapi bekas kuih raya tak beli lagi:p..

aaahh...i wish i can start decorating my hse...nak beli TV baru nak beli cermin nak beli bookshelves nak beli wallpaper...argkhhh....macam2 lahh...:(..but i hve a list of other things to do also..the top list will be tambah my asb loan another 100k & upgrade my family insurance policy.tapi tak sempat2 nak buat lagi ni..sigh..

lagi 3 hari nak raya ramai yang dah start cuti....another 2 working days to go yo!!!!

Selamat Hari Raya & Maaf Zahir Batin!

Macam2 Raya...

2010-09-03T14:54:00.004+08:00

Hye auntie2 dah beli kasut raya?sbb saya dah....

OMG its Friday already!!!yeay!!!tadi lunch break pergi Ariani nak carik tudung untuk baju raya..punya la sesak..haih....mula2 dah give up nak beli tiba2 nampak tudung kentang (i call it tudung kentang sebab tgk org pakai melekat sangat kat muka:p,but ppl call it tudung syria) yang match sngt dengan baju raya saya...dang!camne ni?patut beli ke tak patut ke tak?tak pernah lagi pakai tudung kentang ni...tapiiii...setelah bos Ariani memberi discount tak munasabah heh i end up beli jugak....pfffttt!!!

sebab dah lama teringinnn nak makan kenny rogers semalam we decided to eat for second round kat kenny after berbuka kat umah.eventho share meal ngan hubby...tapi masyaAllah kenyangnya!!gemok satu malam telah mencover lemak2 yang hilang 23 hari berpuasa...dah la servis kat Kenny Rogers Alam Sentral Shah Alam tu teruk!paham la org2 baru settle berbuka korang baru nak rest jap or watever..tapi not even a smile when passed meja kitaorg dengan keadaan aku dok angkat tangan soh clear meja n amek order?kalau tak sebab teringin sngt mmg dah blahhh dari situ!huh!

Raya ni i insist hubby to get lampu lip lap kedai tomyam for our hse..hehhehe...lampu dah beli last week,next week pasang!!!ngeeee:D....

Hari ni dah 24th Ramadhan :)...how time flies...another 6 days to go and insyallah next Friday sambut Hari Raya!yeay!how come i still feel the excitement????:p..

This year,Raya is very much meaningful to us....Arissa being so adorable,talkative & cheeky is definitely one of the reason :)

happy weekends!xxxx

Next week Raya!!!

2010-08-30T15:40:00.003+08:00

Cepat betul masa berlalu Jumaat minggu depan dah nak Raya dah...dah la lately ni banyak public holiday kan...double joy!!!

checklist for Budget Raya..

1. Baju Raya mama & abah - checked!
2. Baju Raya & Kasut Raya Arissa - checked!. She is so excited everytime she saw her new kasut!sibuk nak pakai!mentang2 dah pandai jalan=)...baju kurung raya total 4 pasang this year kalah mummy ok!thanks to her nenek for the extra 2 pasang.thanks to auntie Kina & mummy's friend,this year Arissa ada banyak sngt dress raya!:D
3. Duit Raya - checked!RM600 for the kiddos!
4. My baju raya - checked!tapi plan nak beli sepasang kurung pahang plain.
5. Bills,etc etc - checked!.ni mmg kena allocate siap2 takut terpakai.
6. Service kereta - pending.
7. Duit Kuih Raya - checked!.kuih sarang semut dah siap buat.tinggal nak buat chocolate chips cookies je.

ok,for the remaining 10 days before Raya,..lets all out mengumpul pahala!!!

bored.

2010-08-25T14:27:00.003+08:00

pernah tak korang boring sngt pastu end up surfing2 sampai tatau nak surf apa dah lepas tu refresh2 blog org dengan harapan ada update post?

hihihih..

sebab saya pernah:p...

blablabla

2010-08-23T15:21:00.004+08:00

Selamat Berpuasa & Selamat Beribadat!

Hows your Ramadhan so far?hopefully semua org berlumba2 nak tambah pahala:)...mine was good..alhamdulillah..dipermudahkan segalanya..so far tak pernah tinggal sahur.terawikh pun dapat buat kat rumah lepas Arissa tido..tapi ada jugak few days yang tinggal sebab tsk..tsk..kemalasannn...tsk..kekenyangan...uhuhu
berbuka puasa pun masak yang simple2 je....sebab most of the days hubby berbuka kat office..so nak masak untuk diri sendiri malas end up berbuka kat umah family...with the ridiculously overpriced berbuka puasa buffet at most places,rasanye tahun ni berbuka kat rumah je la kot..

anyway,i bought my ready made baju raya at Subang Parade last Sat!yeay!sukeeee sebab dah tgk banyak baju macam tade perasaan..sekali nampak satu baju ni...mahal sket but sokehhhh laa...sekali sekala...terus beli...Arissa dah dpt satu baju kurung..nice one for the price of 20rm!cayalah PKNS!ni stok kain thai silk ok:P...plain atas ngan kain belang2..murah so terus beli!hopefully satu lagi baju kurung dia kat tailor sempat siap.

kuih raya - ahah!yang seperti tak mampu buat order saja!yang nak buat kuih sarang semut & coklat chips je..excited sebab tahun ni raya kat rumah sendiri mungkin:p

nothing much to update pasal raya...hopefully tak tinggal puasa la tahun ni:)

muka monster macam mana???

morning face!

Selamat Berbuka Puasa!

berita terkini.

2010-08-19T12:27:00.004+08:00

1. Roslin ni ingat kawin ni bende main2 eh?hari ni kawin pastu sukahati ah nak cerai next week ke next month ke...kali ni cerai sebab second wife kantoi dia satu bilik dengan 'kakak angkat' dia kat hotel...erk???...

apa jenis lelaki la camni.tak paham aku.

2. Kes buang bayi.sigh....di bulan Ramadhan????????org jahat (yang masih ada perasaan) kalau nak buat jahat time bulan puasa ni pun sure akan pk dua kali sebab bulan Ramadhan kan...ni boleh pulak kau selamba buang bayi???lagi2 time bulan puasa ni...korang ingat ada competition buang bayi ke apa?

mangkuk betul!

3. yang pasal simbah asid kat muka anak bini ni.ni lagi la satu hal.kesian ok muka budak pompuan tu.dah la tak bersalah.MasyaAllah...rosak muka dia!boleh bayang tak macam mana dia nak g sekolah nanti?kena ejek ngan budak2 lelaki?bapak dia tu patut bagi hukuman gantung ke or simbah je la asid balik kat muka dia.biar dia rasa sakitnye sengsaranya!padan muka!

ok skang aku konfius kalau ada bapak jahanam macam ni lagi baik dia buang je anak tu depan rumah org (bukan dalam tong sampah ok) masa baby tu kecik or jaga sampai besar sket pastu simbah asid?ngehngeh..

4. rogol anak.refer to no.3.same case.bapak jahanam.

5. pukul bini sampai retak tulang?simbah asid kat bini?pijak perut bini yang tgh pregnant 6 bulan????

sakitnye hati!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!kau ingat isteri kau tu apa aarrrr??????

lebih baik stop kat sini je.kang aku pulak tambah dosa.

mintak dijauhkan dari org2 sebegini Ya Allah...

3rd Ramadhan...

2010-08-13T12:27:00.006+08:00

“There is no feeling more comforting and consoling than knowing

you are right next to the one you love.”

Alhamdulillah....puasa berjalan lancar:).....walaupun tade selera nak makan nasi...sahur lagi la makanan takleh masuk langsung...tapi kena jugak makan kan....tapi syukur,setakat ni semuanya dipermudahkan..

semalam baru sempat g pasar Ramadhan..sebab teringin sngt nak minum air tebu...tapi sesaknye ya rabiii....nak jalan to and fro the same lane..*.sigh* penuh dgn budak2 UITM nak beli fud berbuka.....bila dpat beli air tebu..tgk kaler cair semacam..macam boleh agak tebu kordial...mmg betul pun okeh!bukan tebu mesin!frustnye jgn cakap la..sigh!!!kamooonnnn!!!jgn la jual tebu kordial wehh!!!!air lain takpe gak!

on the 8th aritu kitaorg celebrate our 2nd Anniversary together...alhamdulillah....disebabkan Hubby bekerja on that day so kitaorg plan celebrate on the 7th.mula2 plan nak brunch kat KL Tower tapi sebab ramai kata food kat sana tak sedap & i hve to work on Sat balik pun lambat so we end up having our lunch kat Melting Pot Concorde je.i loveeeee fuds kat Melting Pot so takpela.see how marriage can make u compromise in a lot of thing???:p...kalau dulu masa bercinta jgn la harap nak celebrate special2 occasion ni dekat2...dah la awal sehari pulak tu....ngeh3...

My precious TWO!

making her cheeky face:p

with Mummy:x

so on the 8th itself,since hubby balik kerja malam,i decided to prepare something special for dinner...ewah tade la special sngt...sebab baru dpt set ramekins dari US,saya pun buat la bende paling senang ni...& order pizza...

ni la muka budak comel yang tak nak berhenti jalan skang & dah macam2 bijak pastu dah pandai cakap macam2....
selamat berbuka to all;)

Selamat Menyambut Ramadhan:)..

2010-08-10T20:15:00.002+08:00

Selamat Menyambut Ramadhan kepada semua rakan2...mohon ampun dan maaf atas segala perbuatan & percakapan yang tidak disenangi:)..
semoga Ramadhan tahun ini akan lebih baik dari yang lepas...maka marilah kita berebut2 menambah pahala;)...

tahun ini harapnya dapat berpuasa & bertarawikh penuh..insyaallah...tak dpt bertarawikh dimasjid,di rumah pun jadilah kan?;)...
kalau dulu sebulan berpuasa dapat khatam satu Al-Quran...beberapa tahun lepas...tsk tsk...prestasi merundum!ok yang ini kena improve!

marilah kita meninggalkan amalan2 melambat2kan solat (ok yang ini sebenarnya nak ckp kat diri sendiri:p)...

Mak zaman dulu vs Mak zaman sekarang

2010-08-05T09:20:00.003+08:00

lepas baca my friend's entry semalam,i realized that it remind me so much of myself:)..shes worried sebab babysitter anak dia tdokan baby dalam buai..i used to hate buai so much too!!!hi-5 Aneen!!!im sure she has her every reason why she refused to let her son tdo dalam buai...yeah..nanti bila baby nak travel susah,nak kena usung buai sana sini..dah tanak tdo cara tepuk dah...etc etc...that used to be my worries too:)..

back then i was so so strict when it comes to my baby.and one of the reason why i sent Arissa to nursery instead of my PIL's is because at nursery i can simply dictate them to do this and that.
My mum pulak selalu ckp when it comes to besarkan anak,always follow cara org tua.she even buaikan Arissa masa she was 2 months old or less tak ingat sngt and time tu bengangnye jgn ckp la..huhuh...she keep on saying that its good for baby to sleep guna buai cos they will sleep longer.and its good for them to sleep longer sebab nanti tak expose dgn habuk and kesimpulannye kalau lagi tdo lama lagi sihat lah baby tu (ngeehhh???)..and she keep reminding me to make sure Arissa pakai baju dua lapis masa tdo..(errr...panas la dia nanti...kesian..berpeluh2 kan?so i didnt follow that one)
dont let me start on baby food.no solid food before 6 months please!lepas tu boleh pulak my mum ni sambung...hala korang masa kecik2 umur seminggu dah makan nasi lenyek...blabla..sihat jee....pandai jee..
ok...grrrr..grrr....mak2 zaman sekarang banyak membaca and banyak surf and we know better and whats best for our child?no?
one thing that im very particular about,all bottles,ebm bottles or cawan or apa2 la need to be sterile first before sampai kat Arissa.and knowing org2 tua ni sapa la rajin melayan kan...haha...so whenever hantar Arissa kat rumah nenek dia i will provide 6 sterilized bottles for her daily usage..tapi bila amek petang usually all 4 will end up untouched.2 botol je guna..haih...
but i know la they will rendam with air panas at least...thats good enough...tapi mula2 tu kan rasa macam halaaa frustnyeeee......
pacifier?a BIG no no!thank god none or our family agreed on this.i just don't find it hygienic.

sampai la Arissa masuk hospital twice during her early months.it is so not cool to make friends with other mummy at hospital and talk about how long u have been staying in and how bad ur child's condition currently or exchange info on the penyakit ke apa...not cool....so not cool...
i hate to see Arissa kena neb,physio,kena makan ubat bcos of the kahak...sigh...Tuhan saja yang tau..
and still remember my dad's saying....

'anak2 zaman sekarang ni bela anak guna internet lepas tu anak masuk hospital...' sigh...

so i stop Arissa from nursery...full time at my PIL's or my mum's..i work on to get new maid..to help at PIL's and to help me at home since hubby is working 12hrs shift i need someone to look after Arissa whenever i want to pray,bath..etc..

im getting flexible in a lot of things now...as long as at the end of the day...i want my baby to be healthy..no running nose...no fever...kalau boleh dielakkan la..:)

its ok to let Arissa tdo dalam buai whenever nenek jaga dia...she will sleep longer and my MIL can do a lot of things in between time...so its ok...during nite,she will still tdo dengan botol susu sendiri..whenever travel she can still sleep without buai,tapi tak la selama tdo dalam buai (can go up to 3 hrs ok)...so its still ok...
its ok if my mum didnt sterile botol susu and just rendam dengan air panas..cos everytime balik rumah,ill make sure all bottles are sterile...so its ok to be a little bit flexible..
its ok if my parents/my PIL want to feed her with macam2 bende (cekodok la roti canai la..macam2 la) dengan alasan..biar dia belajar makan macam org kampung (heh?).. resulting Arissa now has no problem eating at all...alhamdulillah..tade allergic..bawak g kenduri senang..g mana2 pun senang lah...
andddd....everynite we'll make sure Arissa pakai baju dua lapis,air cond with room temperature (26deg)..or using only kipas...and eversince.....no running nose at all...so yeah...dengar je la ckp org tua2..kehkeh..

so yeah...kesimpulannye...semua org ada cara masing2...asalkan at the end of the day....we want to see them happy and healthy...

Arissa's Birthday Party.

2010-07-29T09:43:00.009+08:00

Thank you to all my friends yang sudi luangkan masa dtg..walaupun hujan selebat2nye on that day u guys rock for still coming!and im so sorry for the limited space & ketidakselesaan korang nak makan:(...and thank you2 for the birthday gifts!

taken on her birthday eve.before she accidentally hurt her lips while playing with balloons.

haaa seeee....birthday girl bibir bengkak..:p

before kenduri tahlil started..

the foods..

alhamdulillah...ramai sngt org dtg...from org surau early in the morning...followed by sedara mara..and friends....sebab petang tu hujan lebat,so foods semua kena transfer dalam..tu yang sempit sket..but all and all the event was a success:)...food pun tak bazir walaupun ramai sngt yang contribute makanan:)..

thanks to auntie kina for the birthday cake!

tapi bila semua guests dah balik.....penatnyeeeeeeeeee nak kemas rumah..glad that i hve my bros and sis to help..;)

done with Arissa's Birthday Party,
now we are counting down to our 2 years anniversary celebration!:x

Kyraisk is..

2010-07-22T15:13:00.004+08:00

1.very2 lazy to even think.
2.scared to host a function for the first time!
3.glad that she can make time to attend kelas mengaji every Sunday night.a lot to improve on her makhraj & tajwid.but glad that she starts now.never too late..never too late...
4.not in the mood to cook.lately hubby has been so handsome&kind to prepare breakfast & dinner for her.
5.just bought her first carpet during lunchtime!before this beli lapik kaki je weh..skang dah beli carpet!
6.having a problem to decide if she really enjoy working under pressure.its a challenge but heck she dun like challenge actually..ngeh ngeh...
7.trying to digest that site visit to her now is no longer about discussing how to set-up network but its a visit to a site dibawah terik matahari & taking all the infos before participate any tender.
8.eats a lot now.she must be gaining some weight but refuse to timbang.
9.starting to accept that her little baby called her papa sometimes.sobs.
10.going back early today cos boss is not around!!yeay!

Shopping with kiddo!

2010-07-21T23:01:00.000+08:00

Arissa decided to help mummy shop for her birthday stuff (mentang2 dah pandai jalan..)

She helps mummy to decide what to put in her party packs...

And help mummy to decide what type of rice should Mummy buy...:p

Gonna turn ONE really soon! Alhamdulillah..;)

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Invitation to Arissa's Bday Party!

2010-07-17T22:58:00.004+08:00

May you grow up to be righteous
May you grow up to be true
May you always know the truth
And see the lights surrounding you
May you always be courageous
Stand upright and be strong
May you stay forever young
May you stay forever young.

~Forever young , Bob Dylan

Dear friends,you are invited to my little princess FIRST birthday party this Sunday 25th July 2010!!!venue will be at our home ~~small~~ lovely home,Putramas,Seksyen 7 Shah Alam, 3-6pm.
for those yang free and can make it for the foods n fun, i will give u my hse no ok?;)..just let me know..

come n bring frens for me ok aunties?:)

Big girl!

2010-07-08T13:48:00.000+08:00

I'm a big girl already!!!;)

I can tell that my mummy is so lazy to update her blog now.eventhou now we hve HSBB at home!

My Mak long will be back from her Europe trip next week and mummy said she can't wait for her new bags!yeay!

Still no progress on my birthday party.oh mummy why r u so lazy!

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the second.

2010-07-06T13:22:00.003+08:00

its my second day today.

everything so blurrryyyyyy...hahhaa i secretly wish i can go back to my old workplace and enjoy working in my comfort zone.

i hope my brain can start working soon.

5 mnts driving with no jam plus everyday is a casual day??? h e a v e n!:D